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Deep dives into D/s, submission, topping, non-monogamy, and emotional well-being — with series like FemDom Friday and Sinful Sunday.

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"I often mention Sinful Sunday on my blog, either when submitting an image or as part of #SoSS posts — community is at the heart of everything I do."

— Floss

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FemDom in popular culture: the good, the bad, the ugly

Female dominance shows up on our screens with a strange double life. By some accounts it is sold as the boldest form of erotic expression, full of leather and…

What I Would Tell My Younger Self About Kink

If I could send a letter back to my twenty-three-year-old self, I would not begin with a warning about how dangerous kink is. I would begin with relief. The…

Queerness and non-monogamy across contemporary Australia

Australia has long provided fertile ground for alternative ways of loving. From the first Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras march in 1978 to the 2017 marriage…

Exhibitionism and the thrill of being seen

The human desire to be watched is as old as storytelling itself. From the carnival performer who arches under the spotlight to the amateur who posts a risqué…

Why I Choose to Call Myself a Pervert

I choose the word pervert deliberately. It is blunt, unfashionable and loaded with the judgement many of us were taught to fear. That is precisely why it…

Aftercare for the Soul When Scenes Go Wrong

A scene can be intense, moving and deeply connective, yet still leave someone shaken afterwards. A safeword may have been used, a negotiation may have seemed…

Erotic Fiction: The Train Ride

A train journey gives erotic fiction a naturally measured rhythm. The carriage moves forward while anticipation gathers in small increments: a glance reflected…

Emotional Intelligence as a Dominant's Superpower

Picture a Dominant who commands a room the moment they walk in. The image is familiar because pop culture has painted it so often. Yet the Dominants who…

Consent, Law, and Liberty: The Politics of Kink

Kink has always lived at the edges of political conversation, surfacing in moments of moral panic and legislative debate. From the leather history of the…

A beginner's guide to impact play for the curious and cautious

You've heard the term tossed around at a dinner party, scrolled past it on flossdoeslife.com, or watched someone on a podcast describe a scene so vividly that…

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