Who Is Floss?

Floss is the writer, podcaster, and voice behind FlossDoesLife. She describes herself as a queer, kinky, and definitely dirty girl — someone who believes in living openly and talking honestly about desire, identity, and the many shapes relationships can take.

Through blogging and the #ProudToBeKinky podcast, Floss explores kink, fetish, BDSM, erotica, non-monogamy, and the emotional landscape that comes with alternative lifestyles. Her writing spans erotic fiction, personal essays, and reflections on submission, topping, communication, and emotional well-being.

Floss has been sharing her voice online since at least 2018, building a body of work that includes FemDom erotica, community round-ups like Share Our Shit Saturday (SoSS), and contributions to the Smut Marathon.

Floss created this space as a place to share honest conversations about kink, BDSM, and non-monogamy without shame or pretense. The blog and podcast grew from a simple belief that desire deserves to be discussed openly, not hidden behind closed doors. Through personal reflections, erotic fiction, and interviews, Floss explores what it means to live an alternative lifestyle with authenticity and joy. The writing tackles everything from the emotional depth of power exchange dynamics to the practical realities of polyamory and swinging, all while keeping the tone warm, approachable, and deeply human. It’s a community built on the idea that kinky people deserve representation, connection, and a space to feel proud of who they are.

Visitors to the site often arrive with questions about how to explore their own curiosities or navigate relationships that fall outside conventional norms. The FAQ section addresses common uncertainties around kink identity, communication with partners, and finding community without judgment. Floss emphasizes that there is no single right way to be kinky or non-monogamous — only what feels authentic and consensual for the people involved. The content encourages readers to embrace self-reflection, set boundaries, and pursue pleasure without guilt. Whether someone is newly curious or deeply experienced, the goal is to offer support, inspiration, and a reminder that alternative lifestyles can be fulfilling, beautiful, and worth celebrating out loud.