[FemDom Friday] FemDom Can Be Sex Inclusive


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Relationships, Sex

Image via Pixabay ‘Don’t you miss having sex?’ A question I have been asked many times with regards to being into FemDom. It’s hard to know where to begin with unraveling the myth behind this particular question, so let’s just acknowledge one thing straight away … FemDom can be sex inclusive. The beauty of being […]

September 21, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Even Hardcore Kinks Have Low Level Entry Points


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Limits, Sadomasochism, Self Expression

Image via Pixabay One of the most common reasons people tell me that they don’t feel like they can explore FemDom, even when the desire is there, is because they aren’t into ‘the right things’. Once again porn feeds into some absolutely legitimate and wonderful kinks, but often they portray the more advanced end of […]

September 7, 2018

[FemDom Friday] It's Okay For Submissives To Have A Voice


BDSM, Communication, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Femdom, Limits, Relationships, Self Expression, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay My own D/s dynamic only comes into play when we engage in kinky scenes. However I stand by the message of this article regardless of whether you have an in scene dynamic only or a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic and I am prepared for the onslaught of emails telling me I am wrong, […]

August 31, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Your sub Doesn't Have To Be Weak!


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Self Expression, Submission

Image via Pixabay Submissive men don’t exactly have the best reputation, and while FemDom isn’t only for submissive men, it is the go to notion when people imagine FemDom. Which is a crying shame because FemDom is sexy for all genders. For the purposes of this post though, predominantly due to outside views, I am […]

August 3, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Be Prepared for Top Drop


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Fetish, Relationships, Topping

Image via Pixabay For any newbie kinkster starting to explore BDSM the topic of sub drop comes up fairly quickly. Whenever I write about drop it is always in a generic sense. It is not only submissives that can get drop, anyone engaging in any kinds of BDSM activities leaves themselves open to dropping afterwards. […]

June 8, 2018

[Kink] Do Feet Make You Frisky?


BDSM, D/s, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Kink of the Week, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay Feet? As a kink, you know what they say ‘your kink is not my kink and that’s okay’. Feet are icky, don’t touch mine. In fact don’t even think about touching them. Touch your feet? Hell no! Feet are not sexy. -Quote from a very clueless me! When I started my journey […]

April 27, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Be Prepared To Find New Kinks


BDSM, Communication, D/s, Femdom, Kink

Image via Pixabay This one is actually great advice for anyone exploring kink, fetish and BDSM, regardless of the initial interest that begins their exploration. Without exception every kinky person I have had in depth conversations with about kink has discussed at least one kink they never knew they had or never believed they would […]

April 6, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Sensual Domination Is Valid


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay ‘I won’t be a very good Top/Dominant because I don’t want to hurt people’ Most Sadists will at some point be the Top in a scene, due to the nature of Sadism being a doing thing, not a receiving thing. Not all Sadists will identify as, or have any desire to be […]

March 9, 2018

[FemDom Friday] FemDom Is For Switches Too


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Passion, Relationships, Self Expression, Sexuality, Topping

Image via Pixabay Switch – A person who may feel Dominant or submissive depending on their mood or their partner. Switching also encompasses those who identify as Top/bottom, and Sadist/masochist I never would have found my love of FemDom if I hadn’t initially thought I was a submissive. When I joined the kink scene it […]

February 2, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Don't Be Swayed By The Stereotypes


#ProudToBeKinky, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Topping

Image via Pixabay When I first tried my hand at Topping, it was not what I would call a success. I bought the clothes and the shoes that said ‘I am a Dominatrix’, my hair and makeup matched the stereotype that the word Dominatrix conjures. When it came to the nitty gritty though I found […]

January 5, 2018