[FemDom Friday] FemDom Can Be Sex Inclusive


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Relationships, Sex

Image via Pixabay ‘Don’t you miss having sex?’ A question I have been asked many times with regards to being into FemDom. It’s hard to know where to begin with unraveling the myth behind this particular question, so let’s just acknowledge one thing straight away … FemDom can be sex inclusive. The beauty of being […]

September 21, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Even Hardcore Kinks Have Low Level Entry Points


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Limits, Sadomasochism, Self Expression

Image via Pixabay One of the most common reasons people tell me that they don’t feel like they can explore FemDom, even when the desire is there, is because they aren’t into ‘the right things’. Once again porn feeds into some absolutely legitimate and wonderful kinks, but often they portray the more advanced end of […]

September 7, 2018

[Erotica] The Passenger


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Passion, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay ‘Can I come along … just for the ride?’ I sighed heavily. This was meant to be our evening, just me and him. Not her. He’d promised an evening of romance and sensual delights. I’d dressed carefully, sexy yet soft. I wanted to be seductive, for him to to be planning what […]

August 8, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Your sub Doesn't Have To Be Weak!


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Self Expression, Submission

Image via Pixabay Submissive men don’t exactly have the best reputation, and while FemDom isn’t only for submissive men, it is the go to notion when people imagine FemDom. Which is a crying shame because FemDom is sexy for all genders. For the purposes of this post though, predominantly due to outside views, I am […]

August 3, 2018

[FemDom Friday] It Doesn't Have To Be 24/7


BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, FemDom Friday, Kink, Relationships, Topping

Image via Pixabay When you first join Fetlife, or even when you are perusing BDSM accounts on platform like Twitter and Instagram, you would be forgiven for thinking the majority of D/s enthusiasts are living the lifestyle 24/7, with high protocols and a signed contract as long a their arm tucked away for safekeeping. Don’t […]

July 27, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Be Prepared for Top Drop


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Fetish, Relationships, Topping

Image via Pixabay For any newbie kinkster starting to explore BDSM the topic of sub drop comes up fairly quickly. Whenever I write about drop it is always in a generic sense. It is not only submissives that can get drop, anyone engaging in any kinds of BDSM activities leaves themselves open to dropping afterwards. […]

June 8, 2018

[Kink] Do Feet Make You Frisky?


BDSM, D/s, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Kink of the Week, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay Feet? As a kink, you know what they say ‘your kink is not my kink and that’s okay’. Feet are icky, don’t touch mine. In fact don’t even think about touching them. Touch your feet? Hell no! Feet are not sexy. -Quote from a very clueless me! When I started my journey […]

April 27, 2018

[Erotica] Just Like a Lamb


#WickedWednesday, BDSM, D/s, Erotica, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Sex, Sexuality, Submission, Topping, Writing

Image via Pixabay He is such a good boy. Waiting. Patiently. He looks fucking glorious, and he is glorious to fuck. Collar on, he kneels in the centre of the room. You arrive first as planned and we continue to adorn him with his accessories of submission. Ankle and wrist cuffs, his harness and for […]

April 13, 2018