[FemDom Friday] FemDom Can Be Sex Inclusive

Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Relationships, Sex

Image via Pixabay ‘Don’t you miss having sex?’ A question I have been asked many times with regards to being into FemDom. It’s hard to know where to begin with unraveling the myth behind this particular question, so let’s just acknowledge one thing straight away … FemDom can be sex inclusive. The beauty of being […]

September 21, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Your sub Doesn't Have To Be Weak!

Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Self Expression, Submission

Image via Pixabay Submissive men don’t exactly have the best reputation, and while FemDom isn’t only for submissive men, it is the go to notion when people imagine FemDom. Which is a crying shame because FemDom is sexy for all genders. For the purposes of this post though, predominantly due to outside views, I am […]

August 3, 2018

[FemDom Friday] It Doesn't Have To Be 24/7

BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Kink, Relationships, Topping

Image via Pixabay When you first join Fetlife, or even when you are perusing BDSM accounts on platform like Twitter and Instagram, you would be forgiven for thinking the majority of D/s enthusiasts are living the lifestyle 24/7, with high protocols and a signed contract as long a their arm tucked away for safekeeping. Don’t […]

July 27, 2018

[Erotica] Addressing His Needs

#MasturbationMonday, #SinfulSunday, #SoSS, BDSM, D/s, Erotica, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Love

Image via Pinterest. Source Unknown.  I often mention Sinful Sunday on my blog, either when submitting an image or as part of #SoSS posts when I am able to do them. When perusing the submissions for the first weekend of June, which was a prompt week, one particular image inspired a line of thinking that […]

June 11, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Be Prepared for Top Drop

Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Fetish, Relationships, Topping

Image via Pixabay For any newbie kinkster starting to explore BDSM the topic of sub drop comes up fairly quickly. Whenever I write about drop it is always in a generic sense. It is not only submissives that can get drop, anyone engaging in any kinds of BDSM activities leaves themselves open to dropping afterwards. […]

June 8, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Sensual Domination Is Valid

Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay ‘I won’t be a very good Top/Dominant because I don’t want to hurt people’ Most Sadists will at some point be the Top in a scene, due to the nature of Sadism being a doing thing, not a receiving thing. Not all Sadists will identify as, or have any desire to be […]

March 9, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Don't Be Swayed By The Stereotypes

#ProudToBeKinky, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Topping

Image via Pixabay When I first tried my hand at Topping, it was not what I would call a success. I bought the clothes and the shoes that said ‘I am a Dominatrix’, my hair and makeup matched the stereotype that the word Dominatrix conjures. When it came to the nitty gritty though I found […]

January 5, 2018

The Joy of Topping


I joined the fetish scene to explore my submissive side, so my adventures in Topping were brief and a little ill-fated. Chemistry, passion, trust and encouragement can go a long way though and those things combined with someone who is crazy hot has made Topping all of the fun. I can’t help but smile as […]

October 9, 2016