[Kink] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Trigger Plans.


BDSM, Communication, Consent, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Limits, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Switchy Girl's Guide

Image via Pixabay Try as we might to ensure all our BDSM scenes and play session go smoothly, there is always a chance of something not going according to plan. When an action, phrase or scenario stimulates a reaction in an individual we refer to it as a trigger. Trigger – an experience that provokes […]

April 9, 2018

[Life] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Aftercare


BDSM, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Submission, Switchy Girl's Guide, Topping

Image via Pixabay Aftercare – The time after a BDSM scene or play session in which those involved calm down, and slowly come back in touch with reality. When I first joined the kink community the concept of aftercare baffled me. As someone who would not consider themselves tactile or overly affectionate I decided that […]

March 12, 2018

[FemDom Friday] FemDom Is For Switches Too


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Passion, Relationships, Self Expression, Sexuality, Topping

Image via Pixabay Switch – A person who may feel Dominant or submissive depending on their mood or their partner. Switching also encompasses those who identify as Top/bottom, and Sadist/masochist I never would have found my love of FemDom if I hadn’t initially thought I was a submissive. When I joined the kink scene it […]

February 2, 2018

[Kink] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Munches and Fetish Clubs


#ProudToBeKinky, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Fetish Clubs, Friendship, Kink, Life, Relationships, Switchy Girl's Guide

Image via Pixabay As a co-host of a podcast for which the tagline is ‘a podcast covering the social and interpersonal side of kink, Fetish and BDSM’, it will probably come as no surprise that I spend a lot of time talking about munches and Fetish events. Before I regale you all with why I […]

January 15, 2018