[Life] Me, Myself and Harry Potter


#WickedWednesday, Emotional Well-being, Life, Mental Health, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image Via Pixabay I’m a big fan of encouraging self care in others, I think it is really important to look after both your physical and your emotional well-being. Seeing as I realise the importance of this one would think that I am excellent at my own self-care, in this case one would be wrong. […]

October 3, 2018

[Life] My Kinky Roots


#WickedWednesday, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Life, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Content Warning: Abortion/Medical Termination/Baby Loss. Please do not read this if any of those subject matters are triggering for you. This is not a graphic post, but I suspect it will be very emotive for many people.  If you’ve ever listened to the Off the Cuffs Podcast (OCPKink), you will hear them […]

September 19, 2018

[Kink] I Am a Medical Masturbator!


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Fetish, Kink, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Content Warning – Medical Play, Blood Play, Needle Play including images of needles in use and bleeding post use. My recent post ‘Nurse Floss Will See You Now’ was something of a landmark blog post for me, it discussed some elements of my kinky interests that I had not shared, except perhaps […]

September 18, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Even Hardcore Kinks Have Low Level Entry Points


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Limits, Self Expression

Image via Pixabay One of the most common reasons people tell me that they don’t feel like they can explore FemDom, even when the desire is there, is because they aren’t into ‘the right things’. Once again porn feeds into some absolutely legitimate and wonderful kinks, but often they portray the more advanced end of […]

September 7, 2018

[Kink] Getting Risky Makes Me Frisky


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Community, Fetish, Kink, Kink of the Week, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay When I saw the Kink of The Week was risky sex I immediately got excited, then I realised I probably don’t have much risky sex and felt a bit deflated. When I sat and pondered my reactions I realised a two things: I assumed in my own mind risky sex alluded to […]

September 5, 2018