[Life] Finding Safety More Fun Than Risks


“I feel the need to endanger myself every so often.” – Tim Daly Content Warning: Discussion of baby loss (past not this current pregnancy, all is still okay & pregnancy (current) For most of my life, I’ve been a sensible kind of girl. I listened to all the advice I received growing up about how […]

April 14, 2021

[Life] Sapiosexuality … It’s Not For Me


“Give me words that make my mind curl before my toes.”— Rachel Wolchin Eeeeeeek!! I think I might offend some people with my thoughts in relation to the quote given for this week’s Quote Quest but I’m going to go for it anyway because I for some reason sapiosexuality gives me a bit of a […]

March 29, 2021

[Life] Being The Perfect Fit For Me


“The day I changed was the day I quit trying to fit into a world that never really fit me” – JM Storm I’m not very good at doing things that help me to fit in when they go against the nature of who I am. I was lucky as a kid because my Mum […]

March 24, 2021

[Life] Music, Memories & A Mosh Pit Belly!


‘Music is the literature of the heart, it commences where speech ends,’ – Alphonse de Lamartine I’ve enjoyed music for as long as I can remember. I had three parental figures who all enjoyed different kinds of music, so I ended up with a wide variety of musical interests. Then when I met my ex-husband […]

March 3, 2021

[Life] Debating the Dependability of Pleasures


‘In life there are two things which are dependable. The pleasures of flesh and the pleasures of literature.’ – Sei Shonagon  I’ve looked at this prompt from Quote Quest every day since it was released, and actually before when browsing the upcoming prompts list and I really couldn’t feel it inspiring much in me at […]

January 20, 2021

[Relationships] Love & Passion; I Want It All!


‘We waste time looking for the perfect lover,  instead of creating the perfect love’ – Tom Robbins The current Kink of the Week topic and the Quote Quest prompt are both on the topic of love and I have to say I was really excited to write about love, but where does one begin with […]

January 10, 2021

[Life] No Fresh Start, Just Continuing My Journey


‘Tomorrow is the first blank page of a 365-page book. Write a good one.’ – Brad Paisley My social media was filled to the brim yesterday with folks unable to celebrate New Year’s Eve with friends and family but who nevertheless were rejoicing the end of 2020. Which in all honesty happens every year in […]

January 2, 2021

[Photography] Growing Joy


‘What is Christmas? It is tenderness for the past, courage for the present, hope for the future.’ – Agnes M. Pahro Normally in December, I would have made a list of blogs I’ve particularly enjoyed this year. Unfortunately, the blogging events that unfolded in 2020 have put an end to me ever doing that again […]

December 29, 2020

[Sex] Fucking Is My Favourite


“The more buttons you undo,’ she said ‘the faster I become undone.’ – Michael Faudet Mr F asked me a question that you might have thought he would have asked much earlier on, the question was … ‘What is your number one kink?’ My answer  wasn’t a kink at all, probably not what he expected […]

December 10, 2020