[FemDom Friday] FemDom Can Be Sex Inclusive


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Relationships, Sex

Image via Pixabay ‘Don’t you miss having sex?’ A question I have been asked many times with regards to being into FemDom. It’s hard to know where to begin with unraveling the myth behind this particular question, so let’s just acknowledge one thing straight away … FemDom can be sex inclusive. The beauty of being […]

September 21, 2018

[Erotica] Cleaning Up Her Mess


#MasturbationMonday, Communication, D/s, Erotica, Fetish, Kink, Passion, Sex

Image via Pixabay Content Warning: Themes of Humiliation and Degradation included  ‘It’s frivolous. You’re frivolous. Don’t you realise some us struggle to pay our bills each month.’ The conversation was always the same with Jane, I wouldn’t  mind so much if she wasn’t nursing a rather expensive bottle of wine as we spoke, and if […]

September 10, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Even Hardcore Kinks Have Low Level Entry Points


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Limits, Sadomasochism, Self Expression

Image via Pixabay One of the most common reasons people tell me that they don’t feel like they can explore FemDom, even when the desire is there, is because they aren’t into ‘the right things’. Once again porn feeds into some absolutely legitimate and wonderful kinks, but often they portray the more advanced end of […]

September 7, 2018

[Kink] Getting Risky Makes Me Frisky


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Community, D/s, Fetish, Kink, Kink of the Week, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay When I saw the Kink of The Week was risky sex I immediately got excited, then I realised I probably don’t have much risky sex and felt a bit deflated. When I sat and pondered my reactions I realised a two things: I assumed in my own mind risky sex alluded to […]

September 5, 2018

[FemDom Friday] It's Okay For Submissives To Have A Voice


BDSM, Communication, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Femdom, Limits, Relationships, Self Expression, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay My own D/s dynamic only comes into play when we engage in kinky scenes. However I stand by the message of this article regardless of whether you have an in scene dynamic only or a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic and I am prepared for the onslaught of emails telling me I am wrong, […]

August 31, 2018

[Kink] Communication: It's Good For Ewe


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Consent, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Apologies for the terrible pun of title, but I couldn’t resist when I decided to use this photo off Pixabay for my featured image.  One of the most recurring topics of conversation about how to do kink ‘right’ is about communication. What kinks people have and how they enjoy them is 100% […]

August 27, 2018

[Kink] Nurse Floss Will See You Now!


#WickedWednesday, BDSM, Consent, D/s, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Limits, Sadomasochism, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Content Warning: Contains thoughts surrounding medical play, blood play, needles and mobility aids as kink equipment. When I first saw this weeks prompt I was going to attempt a piece of erotica based around one of the only uniforms that I’d like to involve in my own kinky fun, the more I thought on it […]

August 15, 2018