[Life] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Aftercare


BDSM, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Submission, Switchy Girl's Guide, Topping

Image via Pixabay Aftercare – The time after a BDSM scene or play session in which those involved calm down, and slowly come back in touch with reality. When I first joined the kink community the concept of aftercare baffled me. As someone who would not consider themselves tactile or overly affectionate I decided that […]

March 12, 2018

A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Frenzy, Drop and FOMO


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Limits, Self Reflection, Submission, Switchy Girl's Guide, Topping

Image via Pixabay FOMO – Fear Of Missing Out Frenzy, drop and FOMO are to my mind a trio of spoil sports who given half the chance will definitely ruin our kinky fun. Knowing that they are always lurking around the corner ready to attack is half the battle, accepting they will happen and learning […]

February 12, 2018