[Erotica] Addressing His Needs


#MasturbationMonday, #SinfulSunday, #SoSS, BDSM, D/s, Erotica, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Love, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pinterest. Source Unknown.  I often mention Sinful Sunday on my blog, either when submitting and image or as part of #SoSS posts when I am able to do them. When perusing the submissions for the first weekend of June, which was prompt week, one particular image inspired a line of thinking that ended […]

June 11, 2018

#sorrynotsorry Stranger; I am not yours to brat & goad!


#ProudToBeKinky, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Life, Relationships, Submission, Topping

When I first joined Fetlife the messages I got were mostly disrespectful requests that I comply with a ‘Dominants’ desires. As my pictures have started including things like Latex, and crops and heels worthy of worship, messages from Dominants have ceased almost entirely and the messages from submissive have begun. On the whole I must […]

May 12, 2017

Hard Limits, Forgetfulness & Forgiveness


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Love, Passion, Relationships, Sex, Submission, Topping

I read a post today on reddit about hard limits and it got me thinking. A brief paraphrased version of the post would go something like: ‘My Dom has forgotten my hard limits on multiple occasions. I believe he genuinely did forget, but I’m struggling to submit to him now that trust has been broken. […]

March 21, 2017

Reader Q&A: How Do I Find a Partner to Push my Limits?


#ProudToBeKinky, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Love, Passion, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality, Submission, Topping

Every now and again via one medium or another that I regularly frequent, I will have some ask me for advice. First off I am touched that they think I seem like I have enough knowledge or experience to assist them, and second of all, I really can only offer my own personal perspective on […]

January 31, 2017

What I've Learned From Switching


#ProudToBeKinky, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Love, Passion, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality, Submission, Topping

In my last blog post I mentioned that I would soon be doing a piece on labels, and how I feel about them. For the record I mean labels like ‘Dominant, masochist & little’. Not labels you find on tins of beans or ketchup bottles. I’m afraid you’ll have to go elsewhere for your food […]

January 18, 2017

Podcasts & Princess Parts


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Instagram, Kink, Passion, Podcasts, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality, Social Media, Twitter

Back in June 2015 I met a lovely fella, who is hella gorgeous and holy-fuck sexy, which combined with the fact he is beautifully kinky has the effect of making my Princess parts feel like there’s a party in my pants every time I see him. That alone is pretty fun, and very satisfying. However, […]

November 6, 2016