[Sexuality] Discovering My Sexual Self


Bisexuality, Erotic Journal Challenge, Self Expression, Self Reflection

As many of you may have noticed, I love a good writing meme and I’m a huge believer in using prompts to fuel my inspiration. This blog would actually be pretty deserted without the weekly meme’s. The newest meme on the block is Brigit’s ‘Erotic Journal Challenge’. One week in and I already think it’s […]

January 14, 2019

[Erotica] I Wish I'd Taken the Photo


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, Bisexuality, Erotica, Friendship, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Sex

I wish I’d taken the photo. He’s lying on his back, one arm at his side, the other folded under his head. The fact it is post sex means he is beautifully naked. Exactly as he should be all the time in my opinion. The gym sessions are showing, muscle definition is popping in all […]

April 23, 2018

Weekend Round-Up: Actions Speak Louder Than Words


#ProudToBeKinky, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Fetish, Fetish Clubs, Kink, Life, Love, Podcasts, Relationships

Actions speak louder than words. What an unfortunate title for a blog post in which I use my words. Bear with me though, somehow, despite the fact I am writing after only 3 hours sleep, I will have a point. I hope! It’s not often I do a round-up of my weekends. Despite the fact […]

May 21, 2017

Hard Limits, Forgetfulness & Forgiveness


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Love, Relationships, Sex, Submission, Topping

I read a post today on reddit about hard limits and it got me thinking. A brief paraphrased version of the post would go something like: ‘My Dom has forgotten my hard limits on multiple occasions. I believe he genuinely did forget, but I’m struggling to submit to him now that trust has been broken. […]

March 21, 2017