[Life] Communcation – It's Not Just For The Poly People


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, Emotional Well-being, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay I read something on social media this week that got me thinking about how some my blog posts might be perceived, and wanted to talk about it a little more. The summary of the post was: “I get really annoyed by all this ‘polyamory’ advice about communicating. Monogamous people need to be […]

December 8, 2017

[Life] Feeling Secure within Alternative Relationship Models


Communication, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay In my post ‘Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles’ I spoke about how my sleeping brain was causing me to feel insecure, and how security looks different within an alternative relationship model. I’m far from being an expert on this matter, and I have so much still to learn, there are some things […]

December 4, 2017

[Life] Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Reflection, Sex

Image via Pixabay Back in September I wrote ‘The Feeling When … New Things Are Awesome’, and yes I’m aware I use the word awesome far too much, but I like it, loads, so you’re stuck with it. In that writing I covered some of my thoughts on compersion, and how I’d finally experienced it […]

November 22, 2017

The Feeling When … New Things Are Awesome


Alternative Lifestyles, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality

Back in February I wrote Poly Ramblings From a Maybe Mono Mind which probably gave the impression I should give up on non-monogamy. Then last week I wrote Exploring New (and Sexy) Things , I realise the two together possibly make for confusing reading, but I think both are really important in showing the journey I have […]

September 8, 2017

[Erotica] The Crack in the Door


#MasturbationMonday, Erotica, Humiliation, Degradation Erotica, Non-Monogamous Erotica

‘Fuck You! Fuck! You!’ It was an interesting choice of words, given that no one was fucking anyone, and I had my suspicions this wasn’t about to change anytime soon. Despite the fact, my cunt was dripping wet, and his cock was hard. I could feel my wetness again my thighs, the barrier of underwear […]

August 26, 2017