[Kink] Is Confidence Affecting Your Kink?

Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Blogs, Communication, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Relationships, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay If you are human, and I’m assuming most of my readers are, there is a chance that at some point in life you’ve had a crisis of confidence. More times than I can count I have heard someone use low confidence levels as to why they are too nervous to try a […]

February 23, 2018

[FemDom Friday] FemDom Is For Switches Too

Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Passion, Relationships, Self Expression, Sexuality, Topping

Image via Pixabay Switch – A person who may feel Dominant or submissive depending on their mood or their partner. Switching also encompasses those who identify as Top/bottom, and Sadist/masochist I never would have found my love of FemDom if I hadn’t initially thought I was a submissive. When I joined the kink scene it […]

February 2, 2018

[Life] Feeling Secure within Alternative Relationship Models

Communication, Emotional Well-being, Friendship, Kink, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Reflection, Swinging

Image via Pixabay In my post ‘Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles’ I spoke about how my sleeping brain was causing me to feel insecure, and how security looks different within an alternative relationship model. I’m far from being an expert on this matter, and I have so much still to learn, there are some things […]

December 4, 2017

[Life] Compersion: Buzzword, Or Beautiful?

Alternative Lifestyles, Community, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships

Image via Pixabay When you start delving into resources for polyamory and non-monogamy, you start to realise that as well as learning about new relationship models, you also start to learn a new language. You can find a very extensive glossary on the More Than Two site, to get a better idea of what I […]

November 24, 2017

Rope, Friendship & the Joy of New Things


Recently on the #ProudToBeKinky Podcast I had a chat with MasterMHatter and CheshireCat_MMH who kindly came onto the pod to tell us about Shibari in a little more depth than what we have previously gone into in prior episodes. Which got me thinking about the journey I’ve taken since the very first time Cheshire tied […]

December 27, 2016