[FemDom Friday] FemDom Is For Switches Too

Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Relationships, Self Expression, Sexuality, Topping

Image via Pixabay Switch – A person who may feel Dominant or submissive depending on their mood or their partner. Switching also encompasses those who identify as Top/bottom, and Sadist/masochist I never would have found my love of FemDom if I hadn’t initially thought I was a submissive. When I joined the kink scene it […]

February 2, 2018

[Life] Feeling Secure within Alternative Relationship Models

Communication, Emotional Well-being, Friendship, Kink, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Reflection, Swinging

Image via Pixabay In my post ‘Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles’ I spoke about how my sleeping brain was causing me to feel insecure, and how security looks different within an alternative relationship model. I’m far from being an expert on this matter, and I have so much still to learn, there are some things […]

December 4, 2017

[Life] Compersion: Buzzword, Or Beautiful?

Alternative Lifestyles, Community, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships

Image via Pixabay When you start delving into resources for polyamory and non-monogamy, you start to realise that as well as learning about new relationship models, you also start to learn a new language. You can find a very extensive glossary on the More Than Two site, to get a better idea of what I […]

November 24, 2017

Friendship – Am I Doing It Right?

Self Reflection

I’ve written quite a few blog posts about the friendships I’ve formed since I joined the kink scene, and the last few days I’ve been thinking about friendship a lot. I don’t require much from my friends, the only main prerequisite for being my friend is that I like you. It’s really that simple. You […]

August 10, 2017

Do We Build Our Friends Up, Or Tear Them Down?


When we spoke to Page from Poly.Land a few weeks back, she discussed how since being polyamorous and developing her ability to enjoy compersive feelings, this had not only occurred with romantic relationships but also with friends. That conversation has been rattling around my brain lately, as I pondered the question; Do we build our […]

June 27, 2017

Rope, Friendship & the Joy of New Things


Due to the behaviour of people who were mentioned in this post, it has been removed. The reason being I cannot and will not support folks who go against all the things I support and champion within the kinky community. If you would like to read my thoughts on being a good community kinkster then […]

December 27, 2016