Do you know what feels really good? Doing something really bad. When it comes to kink there are all kind of ways in which I’ve hit people, mostly on the bottom, either with my bare hand or with an impact device. A fair few boobs have received some impact attention too. Nothing beats the thrill […]
For Episode 93 of #ProudToBeKinky we decided to ask our listeners for questions and spend the entire episode answering them. It was oodles of fun and the questions were so good that I thought my blog readers might like to see them and read my answers too. You won’t, however, get Bakji’s answers, you’ll have […]
Image Via Pixabay Provided they are occurring between concenting adults, who are both aware of any risks that may be present, it is my opinion that ALL KINKS ARE VALID!’ This is the hill I will die on and I will repeat myself on this subject matter until I have no breath left in me. […]
This is probably one of my all time favourite kinks, but what I play with when it comes to humiliation and what many people imagine it to be are I suspect very different. I first wrote about Erotic Humiliation in December 2017 and my approach to it hasn’t changed enough since then to write an […]
When I first read that Brigit would be posing the question ‘ Do you find anything distressing or uncomfortable about your sexual thoughts, fantasies, desires, or actions? ‘ I had my post in mind straight away and again it was a post I needed to dig deep to elaborate on because the short answer is […]
When this post goes live it will be February 1st 2019, and the subject for this week’s Erotic Journal Challenge is ‘What would you like to explore in your sexuality over the next 30 days?’. Which is a great question for me to answer. Bakji and I have become very adept at sharing the things […]
Before you start you might like to read ‘That’s My Kink – An Introduction‘. Last week I shared ‘Techinical Sex: The Woes and The Worries’ and yesterday my post ‘Exploring Virginity’ went live I am worried that between the two of them I might seem a little bit down on sex with men and somewhat […]
Before you start you might like to read ‘That’s My Kink – An Introduction‘. Voyeurism is a relatively new kink for me. Prior to late 2017 I always had an awkward feeling about watching people play that made being a self confessed voyeur tricky. Then I attended a sensual, sexual orgy like event that changed […]
Image via Pixabay My own D/s dynamic only comes into play when we engage in kinky scenes. However I stand by the message of this article regardless of whether you have an in scene dynamic only or a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic and I am prepared for the onslaught of emails telling me I am wrong, […]
Image via Pixabay For any newbie kinkster starting to explore BDSM the topic of sub drop comes up fairly quickly. Whenever I write about drop it is always in a generic sense. It is not only submissives that can get drop, anyone engaging in any kinds of BDSM activities leaves themselves open to dropping afterwards. […]