[Kink] The Great Outdoors


Kink, Kink of the Week

Bakji and I often talk about outdoor sex but not because we do it a lot. In fact, in the four years we have known each other we have played outdoors once. It does, however, come in the conversation surrounding things we felt like we had to do in non-kink relationships to prove we were […]

May 13, 2019

[That’s My Kink] Sadism


BDSM, That's My Kink

In last week’s That’s My Kink I covered masochism and it was very much about the personal journey I’ve taken with it. While masochism was one of the first kinks I played with, sadism came along a little later even though I had known for a long time that it was something I wanted to […]

April 25, 2019

[That’s My Kink] Masochism


BDSM, That's My Kink

Image originally posted as X Marks the Spot Sadism and masochism are kinks that can sometimes seem a little alarming, both to people who realise they identify that way and to onlookers who do not understand why someone who enjoys receiving or inflicting pain. I am some who enjoys both giving and receiving pain in […]

April 18, 2019

[Kink] Safewords Are My Kink!


BDSM, Kink, Limits

Image Via Pixabay The title is mildly misleading, safewords aren’t my kink per se but I am a big, big fan of safewords in kink and I previously wrote about them in my post What’s Your Safeword? That post covers much of what I think and feel about safewords in a balanced manner and with […]

April 10, 2019