Bakji and I often talk about outdoor sex but not because we do it a lot. In fact, in the four years we have known each other we have played outdoors once. It does, however, come in the conversation surrounding things we felt like we had to do in non-kink relationships to prove we were […]
In last week’s That’s My Kink I covered masochism and it was very much about the personal journey I’ve taken with it. While masochism was one of the first kinks I played with, sadism came along a little later even though I had known for a long time that it was something I wanted to […]
Image originally posted as X Marks the Spot Sadism and masochism are kinks that can sometimes seem a little alarming, both to people who realise they identify that way and to onlookers who do not understand why someone who enjoys receiving or inflicting pain. I am some who enjoys both giving and receiving pain in […]
Image Via Pixabay The title is mildly misleading, safewords aren’t my kink per se but I am a big, big fan of safewords in kink and I previously wrote about them in my post What’s Your Safeword? That post covers much of what I think and feel about safewords in a balanced manner and with […]
Image Via Pixabay This week’s Erotic Journal Challenge is ‘What Makes You Feel Sexy?’ and I think this question coincides perfectly with a kink of mine that I’ve been patiently waiting to write about for my own series ‘That’s My Kink’. This week’s Erotic Journal Challenge is ‘What Makes You Feel Sexy?’ and I think […]
Earlier on this week I shared some images for Lingerie is For Everyone that showed my nipples. If you’ve been following this blog for any length of time and have perused my Sinful Sunday images then you will have seen them once or twice before then too. What I’ve never written about though is how […]
Do you know what feels really good? Doing something really bad. When it comes to kink there are all kind of ways in which I’ve hit people, mostly on the bottom, either with my bare hand or with an impact device. A fair few boobs have received some impact attention too. Nothing beats the thrill […]
For Episode 93 of #ProudToBeKinky we decided to ask our listeners for questions and spend the entire episode answering them. It was oodles of fun and the questions were so good that I thought my blog readers might like to see them and read my answers too. You won’t, however, get Bakji’s answers, you’ll have […]
Image Via Pixabay Provided they are occurring between concenting adults, who are both aware of any risks that may be present, it is my opinion that ALL KINKS ARE VALID!’ This is the hill I will die on and I will repeat myself on this subject matter until I have no breath left in me. […]
This is probably one of my all time favourite kinks, but what I play with when it comes to humiliation and what many people imagine it to be are I suspect very different. I first wrote about Erotic Humiliation in December 2017 and my approach to it hasn’t changed enough since then to write an […]
