[Relationships] My Motivation for Non-Monogamy


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, Life, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex

This past weekend we had two extra sets of hands to aid with our sexy fun and no matter how far along the non-monogamy journey I go, these kinds of experiences are always something I find myself reflecting on in much greater detail than I do our one-on-one experiences. After our wonderful friends had left […]

November 14, 2018

[Life] Wicked Women


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, Community, Emotional Well-being, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay I love women. Well I love all genders, but this post is specifically about women. But I promise I’m not leaving the rest of you out. You will get your post another day. Growing up I really struggled to make friends with or maintain friendships with other girls. There was always an […]

June 6, 2018

[Life] 5 Things That Have Helped Me Navigate Non-Monogamy


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, CooperSBeckett, Emotional Well-being, Life, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Swinging, Twitter

Image via Pixabay Ethical non-monogamy is something I knew very little about before joining the kink community. It’s then something I got involved in almost as a side effect of being kinky. In truth I never thought I’d truly identify as non-monogamous and I never imagined I’d be truly happy to see someone I was […]

March 19, 2018

A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Frenzy, Drop and FOMO


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Limits, Self Reflection, Submission, Switchy Girl's Guide, Topping

Image via Pixabay FOMO – Fear Of Missing Out Frenzy, drop and FOMO are to my mind a trio of spoil sports who given half the chance will definitely ruin our kinky fun. Knowing that they are always lurking around the corner ready to attack is half the battle, accepting they will happen and learning […]

February 12, 2018

[#SoSS] Share Our Shit Saturday (on Sunday)


#SoSS, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Sex, Smut Marathon, Social Media, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay I’ve been following and re-tweeting #SoSS (Share our Shit Saturday) for a little while now, but this is the first time I’ve joined in with my own post. If you would like to know more about the movement amongst bloggers then please read the awesome post by ErosBlog for the lowdown. As […]

February 11, 2018

[Life] Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, Life, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Reflection, Sex

Image via Pixabay Back in September I wrote ‘The Feeling When … New Things Are Awesome’, and yes I’m aware I use the word awesome far too much, but I like it, loads, so you’re stuck with it. In that writing I covered some of my thoughts on compersion, and how I’d finally experienced it […]

November 22, 2017