[Erotica] Cleaning Up Her Mess


#MasturbationMonday, Communication, D/s, Erotica, Fetish, Kink, Passion, Sex, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay Content Warning: Themes of Humiliation and Degradation included  ‘It’s frivolous. You’re frivolous. Don’t you realise some us struggle to pay our bills each month.’ The conversation was always the same with Jane, I wouldn’t  mind so much if she wasn’t nursing a rather expensive bottle of wine as we spoke, and if […]

September 10, 2018

[FemDom Friday] It's Okay For Submissives To Have A Voice


BDSM, Communication, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Femdom, Limits, Relationships, Self Expression, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay My own D/s dynamic only comes into play when we engage in kinky scenes. However I stand by the message of this article regardless of whether you have an in scene dynamic only or a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic and I am prepared for the onslaught of emails telling me I am wrong, […]

August 31, 2018

[Kink] Communication: It's Good For Ewe


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Consent, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Apologies for the terrible pun of title, but I couldn’t resist when I decided to use this photo off Pixabay for my featured image.  One of the most recurring topics of conversation about how to do kink ‘right’ is about communication. What kinks people have and how they enjoy them is 100% […]

August 27, 2018

[FemDom Friday] It Doesn't Have To Be 24/7


BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, FemDom Friday, Kink, Relationships, Topping

Image via Pixabay When you first join Fetlife, or even when you are perusing BDSM accounts on platform like Twitter and Instagram, you would be forgiven for thinking the majority of D/s enthusiasts are living the lifestyle 24/7, with high protocols and a signed contract as long a their arm tucked away for safekeeping. Don’t […]

July 27, 2018

[Erotica] Addressing His Needs


#MasturbationMonday, #SinfulSunday, #SoSS, BDSM, D/s, Erotica, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Love, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pinterest. Source Unknown.  I often mention Sinful Sunday on my blog, either when submitting and image or as part of #SoSS posts when I am able to do them. When perusing the submissions for the first weekend of June, which was prompt week, one particular image inspired a line of thinking that ended […]

June 11, 2018

[Life] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Aftercare


BDSM, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Submission, Switchy Girl's Guide, Topping

Image via Pixabay Aftercare – The time after a BDSM scene or play session in which those involved calm down, and slowly come back in touch with reality. When I first joined the kink community the concept of aftercare baffled me. As someone who would not consider themselves tactile or overly affectionate I decided that […]

March 12, 2018