A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Frenzy, Drop and FOMO

Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Limits, Self Reflection, Submission, Switchy Girl's Guide, Topping

Image via Pixabay FOMO – Fear Of Missing Out Frenzy, drop and FOMO are to my mind a trio of spoil sports who given half the chance will definitely ruin our kinky fun. Knowing that they are always lurking around the corner ready to attack is half the battle, accepting they will happen and learning […]

February 12, 2018

[#SoSS] Share Our Shit Saturday (on Sunday)

#SoSS, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Sex, Smut Marathon, Social Media

Image via Pixabay I’ve been following and re-tweeting #SoSS (Share our Shit Saturday) for a little while now, but this is the first time I’ve joined in with my own post. If you would like to know more about the movement amongst bloggers then please read the awesome post by ErosBlog for the lowdown. As […]

February 11, 2018

[Kink] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Munches and Fetish Clubs

#ProudToBeKinky, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Fetish Clubs, Friendship, Kink, Life, Relationships, Switchy Girl's Guide

Image via Pixabay As a co-host of a podcast for which the tagline is ‘a podcast covering the social and interpersonal side of kink, Fetish and BDSM’, it will probably come as no surprise that I spend a lot of time talking about munches and Fetish events. Before I regale you all with why I […]

January 15, 2018

Friendship – Am I Doing It Right?

Self Reflection

I’ve written quite a few blog posts about the friendships I’ve formed since I joined the kink scene, and the last few days I’ve been thinking about friendship a lot. I don’t require much from my friends, the only main prerequisite for being my friend is that I like you. It’s really that simple. You […]

August 10, 2017

Rope, Friendship & the Joy of New Things


Due to the behaviour of people who were mentioned in this post, it has been removed. The reason being I cannot and will not support folks who go against all the things I support and champion within the kinky community. If you would like to read my thoughts on being a good community kinkster then […]

December 27, 2016