[Kink] Getting Risky Makes Me Frisky


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Community, D/s, Fetish, Kink, Kink of the Week, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay When I saw the Kink of The Week was risky sex I immediately got excited, then I realised I probably don’t have much risky sex and felt a bit deflated. When I sat and pondered my reactions I realised a two things: I assumed in my own mind risky sex alluded to […]

September 5, 2018

[Kink] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … BDSM Roles and Labels


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Community, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Writing

Image via Pixabay When you first venture into the kink community, whether that’s by going to a munch or by joining something like Fetlife one of the first questions you are likely to be asked, in form or other, is about how you identify in terms of a BDSM role. For many people the role […]

September 4, 2018

[FemDom Friday] It's Okay For Submissives To Have A Voice


BDSM, Communication, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Femdom, Limits, Relationships, Self Expression, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay My own D/s dynamic only comes into play when we engage in kinky scenes. However I stand by the message of this article regardless of whether you have an in scene dynamic only or a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic and I am prepared for the onslaught of emails telling me I am wrong, […]

August 31, 2018

[Kink] Communication: It's Good For Ewe


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Consent, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Apologies for the terrible pun of title, but I couldn’t resist when I decided to use this photo off Pixabay for my featured image.  One of the most recurring topics of conversation about how to do kink ‘right’ is about communication. What kinks people have and how they enjoy them is 100% […]

August 27, 2018

[Kink] Nurse Floss Will See You Now!


#WickedWednesday, BDSM, Consent, D/s, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Limits, Sadomasochism, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Writing, Writing Prompt

Content Warning: Contains thoughts surrounding medical play, blood play, needles and mobility aids as kink equipment. When I first saw this weeks prompt I was going to attempt a piece of erotica based around one of the only uniforms that I’d like to involve in my own kinky fun, the more I thought on it […]

August 15, 2018

[Kink] Is BDSM Curious a Valid Kink?


#MasturbationMonday, #WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Blogs, Community, D/s, Kink, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay The wonderful Posy Churchgate wrote a piece for this week’s Masturbation Monday called ‘Under My Thumb.’ At the end of the piece, which I found to be a very thought provoking read, and while I began to comment on her post directly, I feel that my thoughts might be suited to some […]

May 31, 2018