[Relationships] Looking After My Brain


Mental Health, Sex Bloggers for Mental Health

Image is mine, the dog is just a friend. I left a comment on Exposing40’s post, Friendly Concern which got me thinking about the reactions I’d received when exploring its contents further with folks who don’t wholly understand my dynamic with Bakji. That dynamic in summary is non-monogamous, kinky but without defined roles, romantic but […]

May 25, 2019

[Relationships] My Motivation for Non-Monogamy


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex

This past weekend we had two extra sets of hands to aid with our sexy fun and no matter how far along the non-monogamy journey I go, these kinds of experiences are always something I find myself reflecting on in much greater detail than I do our one-on-one experiences. After our wonderful friends had left […]

November 14, 2018

[Relationships] Beneath the Umbrella of Non-Monogamy


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex

Image Via Pixabay A little while back I read a blog post that is no longer available about polyamory and swinging myths, it was a great post and it inspired me to talk about another type of alternative relationship model, non-monogamy. I wrote the article below for that blog, but later on in the week […]

November 12, 2018

[Kink] Cuckolding. It's Not Completely Cuckoo!


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Consent, Cuckolding, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Sex, Sexuality

Image Via Pixabay Cuckolding. Is It What You Think It Is? The dictionary definition of a cuckold is, ‘the husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision.’ In terms of cuckolding as a kink or Fetish, there is a lot missing from that sentence to get a clear picture of why people […]

March 30, 2018

[Life] Feeling Secure within Alternative Relationship Models


Communication, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay In my post ‘Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles’ I spoke about how my sleeping brain was causing me to feel insecure, and how security looks different within an alternative relationship model. I’m far from being an expert on this matter, and I have so much still to learn, there are some things […]

December 4, 2017

[Life] Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Reflection, Sex

Image via Pixabay Back in September I wrote ‘The Feeling When … New Things Are Awesome’, and yes I’m aware I use the word awesome far too much, but I like it, loads, so you’re stuck with it. In that writing I covered some of my thoughts on compersion, and how I’d finally experienced it […]

November 22, 2017