‘Trust the overthinker who tells you they love you. They have, most assuredly, thought of every reason not to.’ – L.K. Pilgrim The quote above is a big mood for me. I am without a shadow of a doubt an overthinker. The overthinking does in many ways go hand in hand with my anxiety, but […]
When Covid-19 seemed to be making a beeline for the U.K I don’t think anyone I spoke to was prepared for the chaos it was going to cause, despite the fact we had seen the impact of it in other countries. We somehow seemed to think we were invincible and how wrong we were. Covid-19 […]
I don’t know how or when it happened but I love hugs. I love cuddling and snuggling and being ridiculously wrapped up in the arms of Mr F. I love to hug him the minute I see him, after spending hours with him, in bed at night and when we wake up in the morning. […]
This past week there has been a lot of conversation, much of it quite heated, around the topic of content warnings and how, why and if we should be using them as bloggers. They may also be referred to as content notes and trigger warnings. I am not going to discuss my opinion on the […]
meet me in that place where our souls ache to wander and a million stars will unfold around us and I’ll look at you and wonder how we ever lived in anything less breathtaking than this Words by butterflies rising If fishnet is your thing, and it is most certainly mine then you might enjoy […]
she loves her independence, and yet sometimes she likes being told what to do. that’s part of her contradiction and part of her magic. and part of your magic will be when you understand. Words by JmStorm I am fiercely independent, and then for a long time, I was fiercely FemDom, both of which are […]
I’ve spent the last four, close to five years learning how to be logical in regards to relationships. I taught myself to keeps my emotions in check and I endlessly navigated how I could make non-monogamy work for me. The entire time I was doing all this I wasn’t really considering what I wanted, just […]
The best gift you are ever going to give someone, is the permission to feel safe in their own skin. To feel worthy. To feel like they are enough. – Hannah Brencher I mentioned in a recent post that I’ve been wearing less underwear, and I’m hoping the wonderful Violet will allow socks as my […]
I’ve been thinking a lot about intimacy lately, a change in relationship status and thinking about what you want from future relationships makes that an understandable line of thought. Back in November, I wrote Love Tells; How Do I Spot Them? While it wasn’t a question I asked in the post, I think part of […]
There are things I never wanted. Despite the fact they are dirty, delicious and understandably appealing. There are things I never needed because the very idea of inviting them into my life made my head whirl and my heart flutter. Those are the things that I find myself craving in the very deepest depths of […]
