The best gift you are ever going to give someone, is the permission to feel safe in their own skin. To feel worthy. To feel like they are enough. – Hannah Brencher I mentioned in a recent post that I’ve been wearing less underwear, and I’m hoping the wonderful Violet will allow socks as my […]
I’ve been thinking a lot about intimacy lately, a change in relationship status and thinking about what you want from future relationships makes that an understandable line of thought. Back in November, I wrote Love Tells; How Do I Spot Them? While it wasn’t a question I asked in the post, I think part of […]
There are things I never wanted. Despite the fact they are dirty, delicious and understandably appealing. There are things I never needed because the very idea of inviting them into my life made my head whirl and my heart flutter. Those are the things that I find myself craving in the very deepest depths of […]
‘Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only this meeting that a new world is born.’ Anais Nin I’ve had a few folks comment recently that my photos of late have got a certain something going on with them that is proving popular, and […]
‘She is a game changer, The kind of girl that redefines everything you thought you knew about amazing.’ j. Iron word The concept of game changers can be applied to almost every avenue of life, but it came up a lot when I was consuming a lot of resources on non-monogamy. It’s a subject I’ve […]
When I saw this week’s Wicked Wednesday prompt was ‘apologize’ I had two thoughts, firstly I don’t apologise for who I am, secondly, I apologise for who I am all the time and if perhaps I’m not apologising for being me, I am at least trying to be the most suitable version of myself for […]
It was most definitely a tribute. A tribute of thanks, for raising hell within me, for making me seek and find someone to satisfy the relentless hunger that lay inside my soul. A tribute to the way he makes my body crave the pleasure it finds at his hands, even when I am alone and […]
Yesterday I shared Choosing Lust Over Love for this week’s Food4Thought, and I’m happy with the direction I went in for that post. It was honest and it’s genuinely reflective of how I feel. Then I began reading all your posts and realised how wildly cynical I must seem. Even though I tried not to […]
I wish you were here, observing, as my body shifts and angles are found before the camera captures a moment in time that you are not present for but that you will definitely get to see. My mind is on you as my hands adjust my clothing, brushing against my most sensitive parts in the […]
When I left my ex-husband one of the things I heard more than once was a variation of my actions and decisions being ‘out of character’ and I wondered then and I still wonder now if that was ever really true. As I look back on my life I can in some ways see different […]
