[#SoSS] New Kids on the Block


#MasturbationMonday, #SinfulSunday, #SoSS, #WickedWednesday, Community, Friendship, Podcasts, Self Expression, Social Media, Twitter

Image via Pixabay Setting up a blog is fairly easy. There a wide range of platforms where you can have a blog set up in minutes. Feeling your a legitimate blogger and not an imposter though is much harder. When asked why we write, many of us will give answers that revolve around doing it […]

September 1, 2018

[#SoSS] Wicked Masturbation!


#MasturbationMonday, #SoSS, #WickedWednesday, BDSM, Community, D/s, Erotica, Kink, Social Media, Twitter, Writing, Writing Prompt

Apologies for being behind on these #SoSS posts lately. May was a bit of a manic month for me. My first ever holiday with Bakji, to the wonderful New York City, a new job, the loss of my beautiful little cat and half term means I’ve been rallying hard to just keep the changes in […]

June 2, 2018

[#SoSS] You Are EPIC!


#MasturbationMonday, #SinfulSunday, #SoSS, #WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Blogs, Community, Erotica, Fetish, Kink, Kink of the Week, Self Expression, Smut Marathon, Social Media, Twitter, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay Wonderful, lovely and sexy readers, get ready to open multiple browser tabs and be prepared for a roller-coaster ride of sexy and emotional blog posts. I have an an EPIC week (yes it did need the capitalisation) of blog reading and I am about to hit you all with some awesome and […]

April 14, 2018

[SinfulSunday] Being Vulnerable (It's Hard To Do)


#SinfulSunday, Blogs, Emotional Well-being, Life, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Social Media, Twitter

I’ve been thinking a lot about ways in which I feel vulnerable and the actions I take to try and protect myself from getting hurt, or simply from feeling unpleasant emotions. I try my best to be open and honest on my blog, and I am … for the most part. There are elements of […]

April 8, 2018

[SinfulSunday] When In Doubt Wear Red!


#SinfulSunday, Community, Emotional Well-being, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Social Media, Twitter

Self care comes in many forms. For me it is matching my outer me with my inner me. Recently they have felt a little bit out of sync so I needed to redress the balance. I’m not sure what is says about me that black and red is currently an accurate portrayal of my innermost […]

March 25, 2018

[Life] 5 Things That Have Helped Me Navigate Non-Monogamy


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, CooperSBeckett, Emotional Well-being, Life, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Swinging, Twitter

Image via Pixabay Ethical non-monogamy is something I knew very little about before joining the kink community. It’s then something I got involved in almost as a side effect of being kinky. In truth I never thought I’d truly identify as non-monogamous and I never imagined I’d be truly happy to see someone I was […]

March 19, 2018

[#SoSS] My Smut Marathon Favourites


#SoSS, Blogs, Community, Erotica, Friendship, Self Expression, Smut Marathon, Social Media, Twitter, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay In my last Smut Marathon blog post I mentioned that I had discovered lots of new blogs to enjoy through entering the contest. In response to that post someone asked if I would point my readers in the direction of these wonderful bloggers I’ve discovered so that they could visit their sites […]

March 18, 2018

[#SoSS] Therapy, Fucking and … More Fucking!


#SoSS, BDSM, Community, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Erotica, Friendship, Kink, Life, Love, Mental Health, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex, Social Media, Twitter, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay Monday brought me my first, ‘well that’s a #SoSS post’ moment when I read The Therapist by Karin at theswingshift. This week saw me starting to share some of my experiences with mental health, part of which details how I never quite succeeded in sticking with therapy. That isn’t because I don’t […]

March 3, 2018