[Erotica] Sexy Explorations


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Erotica, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Limits, Relationships, Sex, Submission, Topping, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay I wasn’t sure I had a Monday post in me this week, my preference is to write something I can share to Masturbation Monday and as gorgeous as this weeks prompt photo is I couldn’t seem to write anything in response to it, I think perhaps the gorgeousness of it overwhelmed me. […]

September 3, 2018

[FemDom Friday] It's Okay For Submissives To Have A Voice


BDSM, Communication, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Femdom, Limits, Relationships, Self Expression, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay My own D/s dynamic only comes into play when we engage in kinky scenes. However I stand by the message of this article regardless of whether you have an in scene dynamic only or a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic and I am prepared for the onslaught of emails telling me I am wrong, […]

August 31, 2018

[FemDom Friday] It Doesn't Have To Be 24/7


BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, FemDom Friday, Kink, Relationships, Topping

Image via Pixabay When you first join Fetlife, or even when you are perusing BDSM accounts on platform like Twitter and Instagram, you would be forgiven for thinking the majority of D/s enthusiasts are living the lifestyle 24/7, with high protocols and a signed contract as long a their arm tucked away for safekeeping. Don’t […]

July 27, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Be Prepared for Top Drop


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Fetish, Relationships, Topping

Image via Pixabay For any newbie kinkster starting to explore BDSM the topic of sub drop comes up fairly quickly. Whenever I write about drop it is always in a generic sense. It is not only submissives that can get drop, anyone engaging in any kinds of BDSM activities leaves themselves open to dropping afterwards. […]

June 8, 2018

[Erotica] Just Like a Lamb


#WickedWednesday, BDSM, D/s, Erotica, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Sex, Sexuality, Submission, Topping, Writing

Image via Pixabay He is such a good boy. Waiting. Patiently. He looks fucking glorious, and he is glorious to fuck. Collar on, he kneels in the centre of the room. You arrive first as planned and we continue to adorn him with his accessories of submission. Ankle and wrist cuffs, his harness and for […]

April 13, 2018

[Life] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Aftercare


BDSM, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Submission, Switchy Girl's Guide, Topping

Image via Pixabay Aftercare – The time after a BDSM scene or play session in which those involved calm down, and slowly come back in touch with reality. When I first joined the kink community the concept of aftercare baffled me. As someone who would not consider themselves tactile or overly affectionate I decided that […]

March 12, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Sensual Domination Is Valid


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay ‘I won’t be a very good Top/Dominant because I don’t want to hurt people’ Most Sadists will at some point be the Top in a scene, due to the nature of Sadism being a doing thing, not a receiving thing. Not all Sadists will identify as, or have any desire to be […]

March 9, 2018