[Relationships] Beneath the Umbrella of Non-Monogamy


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, Friendship, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex, Swinging

Image Via Pixabay A little while back I read a blog post that is no longer available about polyamory and swinging myths, it was a great post and it inspired me to talk about another type of alternative relationship model, non-monogamy. I wrote the article below for that blog, but later on in the week […]

November 12, 2018

[Erotica] Cool Shower


#WickedWednesday, Bisexuality, Erotica, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Sex, Sexuality, Swinging

Image via Pixabay ‘It’s too fucking hot. I’m going for beer, anyone coming with?’ ‘Count me in.’ With that we were two men down, and it was just us girls keeping each other company. I hadn’t noticed just how sweltering the heat had become, until their departure had pulled my attention away from my almost […]

April 11, 2018

[Life] 5 Things That Have Helped Me Navigate Non-Monogamy


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, Emotional Well-being, Life, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Swinging

Image via Pixabay Ethical non-monogamy is something I knew very little about before joining the kink community. It’s then something I got involved in almost as a side effect of being kinky. In truth I never thought I’d truly identify as non-monogamous and I never imagined I’d be truly happy to see someone I was […]

March 19, 2018

[Life] Feeling Secure within Alternative Relationship Models


Communication, Emotional Well-being, Friendship, Kink, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Reflection, Swinging

Image via Pixabay In my post ‘Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles’ I spoke about how my sleeping brain was causing me to feel insecure, and how security looks different within an alternative relationship model. I’m far from being an expert on this matter, and I have so much still to learn, there are some things […]

December 4, 2017

The Feeling When … New Things Are Awesome


Alternative Lifestyles, Life, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality, Swinging

Back in February I wrote Poly Ramblings From a Maybe Mono Mind which probably gave the impression I should give up on non-monogamy. Then last week I wrote Exploring New (and Sexy) Things , I realise the two together possibly make for confusing reading, but I think both are really important in showing the journey I have […]

September 8, 2017