[Erotica] Hypnotic Adventures


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Erotica, Fetish, Kink, Kink of the Week, Sadomasochism, Submission, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image Via Pixabay I pause to take in the sight before me. He’s bloody, bruised and battered. This beautiful boy of mine is not a masochist, yet here he stands having barely flinched at the pain I have inflicted upon him. I never imagined he would fall this deep. That our new explorations would work […]

October 10, 2018

[Erotica] Sexy Explorations


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Erotica, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Limits, Relationships, Sex, Submission, Topping, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay I wasn’t sure I had a Monday post in me this week, my preference is to write something I can share to Masturbation Monday and as gorgeous as this weeks prompt photo is I couldn’t seem to write anything in response to it, I think perhaps the gorgeousness of it overwhelmed me. […]

September 3, 2018

[FemDom Friday] It's Okay For Submissives To Have A Voice


BDSM, Communication, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Femdom, Limits, Relationships, Self Expression, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay My own D/s dynamic only comes into play when we engage in kinky scenes. However I stand by the message of this article regardless of whether you have an in scene dynamic only or a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic and I am prepared for the onslaught of emails telling me I am wrong, […]

August 31, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Your sub Doesn't Have To Be Weak!


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Self Expression, Submission

Image via Pixabay Submissive men don’t exactly have the best reputation, and while FemDom isn’t only for submissive men, it is the go to notion when people imagine FemDom. Which is a crying shame because FemDom is sexy for all genders. For the purposes of this post though, predominantly due to outside views, I am […]

August 3, 2018

[Erotica] Cool Shower – Part 2


#WickedWednesday, BDSM, D/s, Erotica, Fetish, Kink, Sex, Submission, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay A follow on from last weeks Wicked Wednesday piece Cool Shower. Content Warning: Humiliation and degradation. ‘So … Together or apart? ‘Apart. They’ve enjoyed each other too much today. Time to separate them.’ At our attempts to get on with showering and preparing for lunch, their hands rose into a stop motion […]

April 18, 2018

[Erotica] Just Like a Lamb


#WickedWednesday, BDSM, D/s, Erotica, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Sex, Sexuality, Submission, Topping, Writing

Image via Pixabay He is such a good boy. Waiting. Patiently. He looks fucking glorious, and he is glorious to fuck. Collar on, he kneels in the centre of the room. You arrive first as planned and we continue to adorn him with his accessories of submission. Ankle and wrist cuffs, his harness and for […]

April 13, 2018

[Life] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Aftercare


BDSM, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Submission, Switchy Girl's Guide, Topping

Image via Pixabay Aftercare – The time after a BDSM scene or play session in which those involved calm down, and slowly come back in touch with reality. When I first joined the kink community the concept of aftercare baffled me. As someone who would not consider themselves tactile or overly affectionate I decided that […]

March 12, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Sensual Domination Is Valid


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay ‘I won’t be a very good Top/Dominant because I don’t want to hurt people’ Most Sadists will at some point be the Top in a scene, due to the nature of Sadism being a doing thing, not a receiving thing. Not all Sadists will identify as, or have any desire to be […]

March 9, 2018

[Kink] Is Confidence Affecting Your Kink?


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Blogs, Communication, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Relationships, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay If you are human, and I’m assuming most of my readers are, there is a chance that at some point in life you’ve had a crisis of confidence. More times than I can count I have heard someone use low confidence levels as to why they are too nervous to try a […]

February 23, 2018

A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Frenzy, Drop and FOMO


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Limits, Self Reflection, Submission, Switchy Girl's Guide, Topping

Image via Pixabay FOMO – Fear Of Missing Out Frenzy, drop and FOMO are to my mind a trio of spoil sports who given half the chance will definitely ruin our kinky fun. Knowing that they are always lurking around the corner ready to attack is half the battle, accepting they will happen and learning […]

February 12, 2018