[#SoSS] Therapy, Fucking and … More Fucking!


#SoSS, Kink, Life, Mental Health, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex

Image via Pixabay Monday brought me my first, ‘well that’s a #SoSS post’ moment when I read The Therapist by Karin at theswingshift. This week saw me starting to share some of my experiences with mental health, part of which details how I never quite succeeded in sticking with therapy. That isn’t because I don’t […]

March 3, 2018

[#SoSS] Share Our Shit Saturday (on Sunday)


#SoSS, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Sex, Smut Marathon

Image via Pixabay I’ve been following and re-tweeting #SoSS (Share our Shit Saturday) for a little while now, but this is the first time I’ve joined in with my own post. If you would like to know more about the movement amongst bloggers then please read the awesome post by ErosBlog for the lowdown. As […]

February 11, 2018

[Review] Nexus Revo Prostate Massager


Sex

When I received the email from Lovehoney to say we were receiving the Nexus Revo Slim Remote Controlled Rotating Silicone Prostate Massager in exchange for an honest review, I was delighted. I couldn’t wait to tell Bakji and he too was excited, as we both hoped this product would advance our adventures in prostate play. […]

February 5, 2018

[Life] Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Reflection, Sex

Image via Pixabay Back in September I wrote ‘The Feeling When … New Things Are Awesome’, and yes I’m aware I use the word awesome far too much, but I like it, loads, so you’re stuck with it. In that writing I covered some of my thoughts on compersion, and how I’d finally experienced it […]

November 22, 2017

The Feeling When … New Things Are Awesome


Alternative Lifestyles, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality

Back in February I wrote Poly Ramblings From a Maybe Mono Mind which probably gave the impression I should give up on non-monogamy. Then last week I wrote Exploring New (and Sexy) Things , I realise the two together possibly make for confusing reading, but I think both are really important in showing the journey I have […]

September 8, 2017

Quickies, Not Just For Sex!


#ProudToBeKinky, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Femdom, Kink, Life, Relationships, Sex

Myself and Bakji have started a spin-off podcast called ‘FemDom and Fetish Fun’ initially the plan was to release it to the general public, but after some feedback from our kind Patrons on Patreon we have decided it would be the perfect thing to offer then for their support. They are shorter than our normal […]

June 21, 2017