[Kink] Cuckolding. It's Not Completely Cuckoo!


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Consent, Cuckolding, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Sex, Sexuality

Image Via Pixabay Cuckolding. Is It What You Think It Is? The dictionary definition of a cuckold is, ‘the husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision.’ In terms of cuckolding as a kink or Fetish, there is a lot missing from that sentence to get a clear picture of why people […]

March 30, 2018

[#SoSS] Sharing Is Caring #3


#SoSS, Kink, Life, Mental Health, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex

Image via Pixabay Monday brought me my first, ‘well that’s a #SoSS post’ moment when I read The Therapist by Karin at theswingshift. This week saw me starting to share some of my experiences with mental health, part of which details how I never quite succeeded in sticking with therapy. That isn’t because I don’t […]

March 3, 2018

[Review] Nexus Revo Prostate Massager


Sex

When I received the email from Lovehoney to say we were receiving the Nexus Revo Slim Remote Controlled Rotating Silicone Prostate Massager in exchange for an honest review, I was delighted. I couldn’t wait to tell Bakji and he too was excited, as we both hoped this product would advance our adventures in prostate play. […]

February 5, 2018

[Life] Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Reflection, Sex

Image via Pixabay Back in September I wrote ‘The Feeling When … New Things Are Awesome’, and yes I’m aware I use the word awesome far too much, but I like it, loads, so you’re stuck with it. In that writing I covered some of my thoughts on compersion, and how I’d finally experienced it […]

November 22, 2017

The Feeling When … New Things Are Awesome


Alternative Lifestyles, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality

Back in February I wrote Poly Ramblings From a Maybe Mono Mind which probably gave the impression I should give up on non-monogamy. Then last week I wrote Exploring New (and Sexy) Things , I realise the two together possibly make for confusing reading, but I think both are really important in showing the journey I have […]

September 8, 2017