[Life] Me, Myself and Harry Potter


#WickedWednesday, Emotional Well-being, Life, Mental Health, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image Via Pixabay I’m a big fan of encouraging self care in others, I think it is really important to look after both your physical and your emotional well-being. Seeing as I realise the importance of this one would think that I am excellent at my own self-care, in this case one would be wrong. […]

October 3, 2018

[Life] My Kinky Roots


#WickedWednesday, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Life, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Content Warning: Abortion/Medical Termination/Baby Loss. Please do not read this if any of those subject matters are triggering for you. This is not a graphic post, but I suspect it will be very emotive for many people.  If you’ve ever listened to the Off the Cuffs Podcast (OCPKink), you will hear them […]

September 19, 2018

[Kink] I Am a Medical Masturbator!


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Fetish, Kink, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Content Warning – Medical Play, Blood Play, Needle Play including images of needles in use and bleeding post use. My recent post ‘Nurse Floss Will See You Now’ was something of a landmark blog post for me, it discussed some elements of my kinky interests that I had not shared, except perhaps […]

September 18, 2018

[Kink] Getting Risky Makes Me Frisky


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Community, Fetish, Kink, Kink of the Week, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay When I saw the Kink of The Week was risky sex I immediately got excited, then I realised I probably don’t have much risky sex and felt a bit deflated. When I sat and pondered my reactions I realised a two things: I assumed in my own mind risky sex alluded to […]

September 5, 2018

[Kink] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … BDSM Roles and Labels


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Community, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay When you first venture into the kink community, whether that’s by going to a munch or by joining something like Fetlife one of the first questions you are likely to be asked, in form or other, is about how you identify in terms of a BDSM role. For many people the role […]

September 4, 2018