This past week there has been a lot of conversation, much of it quite heated, around the topic of content warnings and how, why and if we should be using them as bloggers. They may also be referred to as content notes and trigger warnings. I am not going to discuss my opinion on the […]
Image note: The image originally chosen for this topic over on the F4T post has now been changed as it created a conversation surrounding what images are appropriate to accompany the #MeToo movement. Lighting candles at vigils and for those we have lost is common practice and as such I decided that the image I’ve […]
I can’t share information about my muggle job with you all, which normally isn’t a problem but for this particular post, it would have been handy. Instead, I will tell you why this job above all others is relevant to the topic of Blogger Love Languages, which has been presented to by Mx Nillin. In […]
When May and I took over Food For Thought Friday our first prompt was Room 101, this past week a post someone shared for that week has been on my mind and I realised it was probably time to discuss one of my kinks that I enjoy intensely, both as a top and a bottom. […]
I read Personal sex stories: writing, narcissism and the value of ‘I’ by Girl on the Net and a) it was brilliant but also b) it fired me right up. My initial response was shared on Twitter when I quote-tweeted her article onto my timeline … As I thought on things more though I wondered […]
I’m not a huge movie buff and I’ve been told on numerous occasions my taste in movies and Tv sucks, and you know what? I absolutely don’t give a shit. I know lots of people who are highly interested and invested in the technical aspects of visual media, they see so much that I don’t […]
This week’s Erotic Journal Challenge prompt is ‘Never Again’ with Brigit asking us … What have you done sexually that you would never do again (or never do again THAT WAY)? Or are there things you’ve done that you’d do but with certain changes? Is there a promise you’ve made yourself about how you will […]
For Episode 93 of #ProudToBeKinky we decided to ask our listeners for questions and spend the entire episode answering them. It was oodles of fun and the questions were so good that I thought my blog readers might like to see them and read my answers too. You won’t, however, get Bakji’s answers, you’ll have […]
I have never found myself in the grip of an eating disorder, however, that is not for lack of people trying to convince me I definitely did have an unhealthy relationship with food. I know you must be thinking ‘well there’s no smoke without fire, what did they witness to lead them to say that […]
I first had sex when I was 16. At 16 I was giving orgasms, receiving, not orgasms, but certainly, lots of sexual enjoyment and activity wise I was exploring all the things I wanted to. If I told people about the first few years of my sexual history though and then asked them when I […]
