FemDom Friday: Don’t Be Swayed By The Stereotypes
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FemDom Friday: Don’t Be Swayed By The Stereotypes

When I first tried my hand at Topping, it was not what I would call a success. I bought the clothes and the shoes that said ‘I am a Dominatrix’, my hair and makeup matched the stereotype that the word Dominatrix conjures. When it came to the nitty gritty though I found that style wasn’t … Continue reading

Communcation. It’s Not Just For The Poly People
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Communcation. It’s Not Just For The Poly People

I read something on social media this week that got me thinking about how some my blog posts might be perceived, and wanted to talk about it a little more. The summary of the post was: “I get really annoyed by all this ‘polyamory’ advice about communicating. Monogamous people need to be doing that too. … Continue reading

Episode 54 – Incompatibility Red Flags
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Episode 54 – Incompatibility Red Flags

You can find out more about the podcast here, you can also listen on most available podcast apps or via our Libsyn Page. While red flags usually refer to those behaviors that would signal a relationship is unsafe or unhealthy, in this episode we are discussing the things that are incompatibility red flags. Things that … Continue reading

There Aren’t That Many Good BDSM Podcasts
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There Aren’t That Many Good BDSM Podcasts

When we finally released #ProudToBeKinky to the public it had been over a year since I’d started discussing it with Bakji, and even longer since he had envisioned the initial idea. By the time anyone heard our first episode we’d already put a ton of work into it to make it as good as it … Continue reading

Episode 51 – Sex Toys with Aurora Glory
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Episode 51 – Sex Toys with Aurora Glory

Aurora Glory joins us for this episode. Yes that is right, we have a guest with us again. We were delighted to have the chance to chat to Aurora, about everything from sex toys, to lube and of course blogging. We start off this episode with a very important question. That you won’t want to … Continue reading

The Vulnerability of Topping
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The Vulnerability of Topping

Recently on #ProudToBeKinky we discussed the internal conflicts of Kink. Those things we might be interested in, or roles we might identify with that for whatever reason might be at odds with our non-kink life. During the podcast one of the things I mentioned was how I find it much easier to vocalise what I … Continue reading