I’ve been thinking a lot about intimacy lately, a change in relationship status and thinking about what you want from future relationships makes that an understandable line of thought. Back in November, I wrote Love Tells; How Do I Spot Them? While it wasn’t a question I asked in the post, I think part of […]
‘She is a game changer, The kind of girl that redefines everything you thought you knew about amazing.’ j. Iron word The concept of game changers can be applied to almost every avenue of life, but it came up a lot when I was consuming a lot of resources on non-monogamy. It’s a subject I’ve […]
When I saw this week’s Wicked Wednesday prompt was ‘apologize’ I had two thoughts, firstly I don’t apologise for who I am, secondly, I apologise for who I am all the time and if perhaps I’m not apologising for being me, I am at least trying to be the most suitable version of myself for […]
Yesterday I shared Choosing Lust Over Love for this week’s Food4Thought, and I’m happy with the direction I went in for that post. It was honest and it’s genuinely reflective of how I feel. Then I began reading all your posts and realised how wildly cynical I must seem. Even though I tried not to […]
When I decided upon ‘The things we do for love’ as a topic for Food4Thought I won’t lie, I was thinking of dirty things. Partly inspired by the post I read from Girl on the Net, Anything he wants: love, piss and foolishness, which made me ponder all the delicious, sexy and hopefully filthy things […]
The current Tell Me About prompt of resets has been calling to me all week, and I’ve been telling myself it wouldn’t be right to hijack that prompt for the post I need to write. The truth is though it’s the notion of a reset that is giving me a viewpoint that makes it possible […]
Quite often when I think of the Food for Through prompt for the week’s I provide them (May and I take turns for those who haven’t visited us yet) I pick topics that I want to hear YOU write about, entirely forgetting that I will have to write about them too. This week’s prompt of […]
When I first saw the suggestion for the topic of ‘face value’ suggested by Posy Churchgate for Food for Thought Friday, I instantly wanted to go for it. While I fully accept that many of us have hidden depths and aspects of our personality we don’t share with everyone we come into contact with, I […]
I’ve made vows before, legally binding ones. They were vows I never imagined I would walk away from. When I got married I was 22, I was marrying the man I considered my best friend and as I said my vows I was 100% convinced we would spend the rest of lives together. In a […]
When I consider the question of what do I love about Bakji’s body, my first reaction is just to say ‘everything’ because it’s true. There is not a single part of his body that I don’t adore. When I first saw Bakji I thought he was gorgeous, he was slimmer then than he is now, […]
