I don’t know how or when it happened but I love hugs. I love cuddling and snuggling and being ridiculously wrapped up in the arms of Mr F. I love to hug him the minute I see him, after spending hours with him, in bed at night and when we wake up in the morning. […]
I love feeding people, in lots of ways and it is definitely one of my love languages and usually, one of the earliest to show itself. For me it’s not just cooking a meal for people either, it’s providing them with food in any way I can. Quite often when I go to work in […]
Last night Mr F and I went on our second first date. Which is necessary because there is a certain area of life where we’ve needed to keep our budding romance under wraps. That has now been addressed in the way it needed to be, with the person it needed to be, which means we […]
Some mistakes get made That’s alright, that’s okay You can think that you’re in love When you’re really just in pain Some mistakes get made That’s alright, that’s okay In the end it’s better for me That’s the moral of the story babe Ashe – Moral of the Story Hindsight is a wonderful thing, it […]
Growing up I don’t think I had very good role models when it came to romance. It’s only now as I look back and also review the relationships I’ve had that I can see how the dynamics I witnessed as a child/teenager shaped what I expected in terms of romance for myself. My step-dad was […]
I’ve spent the last four, close to five years learning how to be logical in regards to relationships. I taught myself to keeps my emotions in check and I endlessly navigated how I could make non-monogamy work for me. The entire time I was doing all this I wasn’t really considering what I wanted, just […]
I’ve been thinking a lot about intimacy lately, a change in relationship status and thinking about what you want from future relationships makes that an understandable line of thought. Back in November, I wrote Love Tells; How Do I Spot Them? While it wasn’t a question I asked in the post, I think part of […]
‘She is a game changer, The kind of girl that redefines everything you thought you knew about amazing.’ j. Iron word The concept of game changers can be applied to almost every avenue of life, but it came up a lot when I was consuming a lot of resources on non-monogamy. It’s a subject I’ve […]
When I saw this week’s Wicked Wednesday prompt was ‘apologize’ I had two thoughts, firstly I don’t apologise for who I am, secondly, I apologise for who I am all the time and if perhaps I’m not apologising for being me, I am at least trying to be the most suitable version of myself for […]
Yesterday I shared Choosing Lust Over Love for this week’s Food4Thought, and I’m happy with the direction I went in for that post. It was honest and it’s genuinely reflective of how I feel. Then I began reading all your posts and realised how wildly cynical I must seem. Even though I tried not to […]
