[Life] Before, After & Letting Love In


#WickedWednesday, Emotional Well-being, Friendship, Life, Love, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

I had multiple ideas for the before and after prompt. Some fictional. Some fact, some sexy, some not. Most of the ones based on personal experiences are long since past, while the after maybe still remain in my life in terms of being part of my life experience it isn’t ongoing as such. Then I […]

January 8, 2019

[Erotica] Alice's Adventures in Debauchery


#MasturbationMonday, BDSM, Erotica, Kink, Relationships, Sex

Featured images by Posy Churchgate and used with permission. ‘Alice! Alice! Stop this infernal daydreaming and listen to me, and while you’re at it take off those ridiculous socks!’ Alice raised her gaze slowly and looked at her husband, with a look that could not be mistaken for anything other than disdain. Her loving, adventurous […]

December 3, 2018

[Erotica] The Rules


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, Bisexuality, Erotica, Friendship, Love, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality

Image Via Pixabay ‘Look, you know the rules. We can’t.’ I did know the rules or should I say his rules and I thought they were fucking stupid. Not least of all because they weren’t my rules, but they were still imposing on my life and spoiling my fun. I wouldn’t mind if she was […]

November 26, 2018

[Relationships] My Motivation for Non-Monogamy


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, Life, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex

This past weekend we had two extra sets of hands to aid with our sexy fun and no matter how far along the non-monogamy journey I go, these kinds of experiences are always something I find myself reflecting on in much greater detail than I do our one-on-one experiences. After our wonderful friends had left […]

November 14, 2018

[Relationships] Beneath the Umbrella of Non-Monogamy


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, Friendship, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex, Swinging

Image Via Pixabay A little while back I read a blog post that is no longer available about polyamory and swinging myths, it was a great post and it inspired me to talk about another type of alternative relationship model, non-monogamy. I wrote the article below for that blog, but later on in the week […]

November 12, 2018

[FemDom Friday] FemDom Can Be Sex Inclusive


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Relationships, Sex

Image via Pixabay ‘Don’t you miss having sex?’ A question I have been asked many times with regards to being into FemDom. It’s hard to know where to begin with unraveling the myth behind this particular question, so let’s just acknowledge one thing straight away … FemDom can be sex inclusive. The beauty of being […]

September 21, 2018

[Kink] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … BDSM Roles and Labels


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Community, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay When you first venture into the kink community, whether that’s by going to a munch or by joining something like Fetlife one of the first questions you are likely to be asked, in form or other, is about how you identify in terms of a BDSM role. For many people the role […]

September 4, 2018

[Erotica] Sexy Explorations


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Erotica, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Limits, Relationships, Sex, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay I wasn’t sure I had a Monday post in me this week, my preference is to write something I can share to Masturbation Monday and as gorgeous as this weeks prompt photo is I couldn’t seem to write anything in response to it, I think perhaps the gorgeousness of it overwhelmed me. […]

September 3, 2018