[Kink] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Munches and Fetish Clubs

#ProudToBeKinky, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Fetish Clubs, Friendship, Kink, Life, Relationships, Switchy Girl's Guide

Image via Pixabay As a co-host of a podcast for which the tagline is ‘a podcast covering the social and interpersonal side of kink, Fetish and BDSM’, it will probably come as no surprise that I spend a lot of time talking about munches and Fetish events. Before I regale you all with why I […]

January 15, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Don't Be Swayed By The Stereotypes

#ProudToBeKinky, BDSM, D/s, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Topping

Image via Pixabay When I first tried my hand at Topping, it was not what I would call a success. I bought the clothes and the shoes that said ‘I am a Dominatrix’, my hair and makeup matched the stereotype that the word Dominatrix conjures. When it came to the nitty gritty though I found […]

January 5, 2018

[Kink] Super Sexy Thoughts on Erotic Humiliation

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Image via Pixabay Recently myself and Bakji spoke to Princess Kali about erotic humiliation for ProudToBeKinky. During that podcast I recalled how her book, Enough To Make You Blush, was one of my earliest and favourite resources when I was starting out in my FemDom journey. Having heard Princess Kali on Masocast, I was intrigued […]

December 6, 2017

[Kink] The Vulnerability of Topping

#ProudToBeKinky, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Self Expression, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay Recently on #ProudToBeKinky we discussed the internal conflicts of Kink. Those things we might be interested in, or roles we might identify with that for whatever reason might be at odds with our non-kink life. During the podcast one of the things I mentioned was how I find it much easier to […]

September 28, 2017

Do We Build Our Friends Up, Or Tear Them Down?


When we spoke to Page from Poly.Land a few weeks back, she discussed how since being polyamorous and developing her ability to enjoy compersive feelings, this had not only occurred with romantic relationships but also with friends. That conversation has been rattling around my brain lately, as I pondered the question; Do we build our […]

June 27, 2017

Quickies, Not Just For Sex!

#ProudToBeKinky, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Life, Love, Podcasts, Relationships, Sex, Submission, Topping

Myself and Bakji have started a spin-off podcast called ‘FemDom and Fetish Fun’ initially the plan was to release it to the general public, but after some feedback from our kind Patrons on Patreon we have decided it would be the perfect thing to offer then for their support. They are shorter than our normal […]

June 21, 2017

The Importance of Trust in BDSM

#ProudToBeKinky, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Life, Love, Podcasts, Relationships, Submission, Topping

I was perusing Twitter today via the #ProudToBeKinky account and I saw a tweet from @KinkAcademy, you can see the tweet here, the quote from it though was as follows. ‘The more trust two people build in each other the more intense and rewarding the play can be’ I quoted the Tweet, adding that I […]

May 25, 2017

Weekend Round-Up: Actions Speak Louder Than Words

#ProudToBeKinky, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Fetish, Fetish Clubs, Kink, Life, Love, Podcasts, Relationships

Actions speak louder than words. What an unfortunate title for a blog post in which I use my words. Bear with me though, somehow, despite the fact I am writing after only 3 hours sleep, I will have a point. I hope! It’s not often I do a round-up of my weekends. Despite the fact […]

May 21, 2017

#sorrynotsorry Stranger; I am not yours to brat & goad!

#ProudToBeKinky, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Life, Relationships, Submission, Topping

When I first joined Fetlife the messages I got were mostly disrespectful requests that I comply with a ‘Dominants’ desires. As my pictures have started including things like Latex, and crops and heels worthy of worship, messages from Dominants have ceased almost entirely and the messages from submissive have begun. On the whole I must […]

May 12, 2017