[Relationships] My Motivation for Non-Monogamy


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, Life, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex

This past weekend we had two extra sets of hands to aid with our sexy fun and no matter how far along the non-monogamy journey I go, these kinds of experiences are always something I find myself reflecting on in much greater detail than I do our one-on-one experiences. After our wonderful friends had left […]

November 14, 2018

[Relationships] Beneath the Umbrella of Non-Monogamy


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, Friendship, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex, Swinging

Image Via Pixabay A little while back I read a blog post that is no longer available about polyamory and swinging myths, it was a great post and it inspired me to talk about another type of alternative relationship model, non-monogamy. I wrote the article below for that blog, but later on in the week […]

November 12, 2018

[Life] Wicked Women


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, Community, Emotional Well-being, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay I love women. Well I love all genders, but this post is specifically about women. But I promise I’m not leaving the rest of you out. You will get your post another day. Growing up I really struggled to make friends with or maintain friendships with other girls. There was always an […]

June 6, 2018

[Erotica] I Wish I'd Taken the Photo


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, Bisexuality, Erotica, Friendship, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Passion, Polyamory, Relationships, Sex, Writing, Writing Prompt

I wish I’d taken the photo. He’s lying on his back, one arm at his side, the other folded under his head. The fact it is post sex means he is beautifully naked. Exactly as he should be all the time in my opinion. The gym sessions are showing, muscle definition is popping in all […]

April 23, 2018

[Erotica] Just Like a Lamb


#WickedWednesday, BDSM, D/s, Erotica, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Sex, Sexuality, Submission, Topping, Writing

Image via Pixabay He is such a good boy. Waiting. Patiently. He looks fucking glorious, and he is glorious to fuck. Collar on, he kneels in the centre of the room. You arrive first as planned and we continue to adorn him with his accessories of submission. Ankle and wrist cuffs, his harness and for […]

April 13, 2018

[Erotica] Cool Shower


#WickedWednesday, Bisexuality, Erotica, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Sex, Sexuality, Swinging

Image via Pixabay ‘It’s too fucking hot. I’m going for beer, anyone coming with?’ ‘Count me in.’ With that we were two men down, and it was just us girls keeping each other company. I hadn’t noticed just how sweltering the heat had become, until their departure had pulled my attention away from my almost […]

April 11, 2018

[Life] 5 Things That Have Helped Me Navigate Non-Monogamy


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, CooperSBeckett, Emotional Well-being, Life, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Swinging, Twitter

Image via Pixabay Ethical non-monogamy is something I knew very little about before joining the kink community. It’s then something I got involved in almost as a side effect of being kinky. In truth I never thought I’d truly identify as non-monogamous and I never imagined I’d be truly happy to see someone I was […]

March 19, 2018

[#SoSS] Share Our Shit Saturday (on Sunday)


#SoSS, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Sex, Smut Marathon, Social Media, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay I’ve been following and re-tweeting #SoSS (Share our Shit Saturday) for a little while now, but this is the first time I’ve joined in with my own post. If you would like to know more about the movement amongst bloggers then please read the awesome post by ErosBlog for the lowdown. As […]

February 11, 2018

[Life] Communcation – It's Not Just For The Poly People


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, Emotional Well-being, Life, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay I read something on social media this week that got me thinking about how some my blog posts might be perceived, and wanted to talk about it a little more. The summary of the post was: “I get really annoyed by all this ‘polyamory’ advice about communicating. Monogamous people need to be […]

December 8, 2017

[Life] Feeling Secure within Alternative Relationship Models


Communication, Emotional Well-being, Friendship, Kink, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Reflection, Swinging

Image via Pixabay In my post ‘Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles’ I spoke about how my sleeping brain was causing me to feel insecure, and how security looks different within an alternative relationship model. I’m far from being an expert on this matter, and I have so much still to learn, there are some things […]

December 4, 2017