Communcation. It’s Not Just For The Poly People
Alternative Lifestyles / Communication / Emotional Well-being / Life / love / Nonmonogamy / polyamory / Relationships / Self Expression / Self Reflection

Communcation. It’s Not Just For The Poly People

I read something on social media this week that got me thinking about how some my blog posts might be perceived, and wanted to talk about it a little more. The summary of the post was: “I get really annoyed by all this ‘polyamory’ advice about communicating. Monogamous people need to be doing that too. … Continue reading

Feeling Secure within Alternative Relationship Models
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Feeling Secure within Alternative Relationship Models

In my post ‘Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles’ I spoke about how my sleeping brain was causing me to feel insecure, and how security looks different within an alternative relationship model. I’m far from being an expert on this matter, and I have so much still to learn, there are some things I’ve figured out … Continue reading

Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles
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Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles

Back in September I wrote ‘The Feeling When … New Things Are Awesome’, and yes I’m aware I use the word awesome far too much, but I like it, loads, so you’re stuck with it. In that writing I covered some of my thoughts on compersion, and how I’d finally experienced it in some way, … Continue reading

Episode 53 – Being an Idollator with Davecat & Sidore
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Episode 53 – Being an Idollator with Davecat & Sidore

DaveCat is our guest for this week’s episode and we were delighted to have him on the show, having heard him on a couple of other podcasts. Part of doing the podcast was to not only talk about Kinks, Fetishes and elements of BDSM, but also to talk to people who have alternative lifestyles, alternative … Continue reading

The Feeling When … New Things Are Awesome
Alternative Lifestyles / Life / love / Nonmonogamy / passion / polyamory / Relationships / sex / sexuality / Swinging

The Feeling When … New Things Are Awesome

Back in February I wrote Poly Ramblings From a Maybe Mono Mind which probably gave the impression I should give up on non-monogamy. Then last week I wrote Exploring New (and Sexy) Things , I realise the two together possibly make for confusing reading, but I think both are really important in showing the journey I have … Continue reading

Exploring New (and Sexy) Things
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Exploring New (and Sexy) Things

When I first started this blog it was because I felt like I was on the precipice of exploring polyamory, and I thought that having a place to chronicle that journey would be useful, not only to myself but maybe to others who were also trying to navigate those waters themselves. Less as a resource … Continue reading