[Relationships] Confessions of a Non-Monogamist


Erotic Journal Challenge, Nonmonogamy, Relationships

Image originally posted as With These Hands For episode 101 of ProudToBeKinky, we discussed Alternative Relationship Models. Which meant not only discussing what that term encompasses but also touching base on why we see our own dynamic as coming under that category. As well as having conversations like this on the podcast, we often have […]

May 1, 2019

[Relationships] My Motivation for Non-Monogamy


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex

This past weekend we had two extra sets of hands to aid with our sexy fun and no matter how far along the non-monogamy journey I go, these kinds of experiences are always something I find myself reflecting on in much greater detail than I do our one-on-one experiences. After our wonderful friends had left […]

November 14, 2018

[Relationships] Beneath the Umbrella of Non-Monogamy


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex

Image Via Pixabay A little while back I read a blog post that is no longer available about polyamory and swinging myths, it was a great post and it inspired me to talk about another type of alternative relationship model, non-monogamy. I wrote the article below for that blog, but later on in the week […]

November 12, 2018

[TMI Tuesday] Three Is The Magic Number


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Bisexuality, Fetish, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex, Sexuality

Image via Pixabay It’s been a while since I joined in with TMI Tuesday, but I really do find it a fun way for my readers to get to know me better. Hopefully with more time to blog now I will be getting involved on a weekly basis. Please do consider getting involved and take […]

August 14, 2018

[Life] Wicked Women


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, Community, Emotional Well-being, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay I love women. Well I love all genders, but this post is specifically about women. But I promise I’m not leaving the rest of you out. You will get your post another day. Growing up I really struggled to make friends with or maintain friendships with other girls. There was always an […]

June 6, 2018

[Kink] The Cone of Shame is Fun with Friends


#WickedWednesday, BDSM, Communication, Consent, Fetish, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay For last weeks Wicked Wednesday I wrote a piece of erotica, ‘Cool Shower- Part 2‘ that contained humiliation as its main theme and a little while back I wrote ‘(Super Sexy) Thoughts on Erotic Humiliation’, and recently it is a kink that I have been thinking about more and more and I […]

April 25, 2018

[Kink] Cuckolding. It's Not Completely Cuckoo!


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Consent, Cuckolding, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Sex, Sexuality

Image Via Pixabay Cuckolding. Is It What You Think It Is? The dictionary definition of a cuckold is, ‘the husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision.’ In terms of cuckolding as a kink or Fetish, there is a lot missing from that sentence to get a clear picture of why people […]

March 30, 2018

[Life] 5 Things That Have Helped Me Navigate Non-Monogamy


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, Emotional Well-being, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Ethical non-monogamy is something I knew very little about before joining the kink community. It’s then something I got involved in almost as a side effect of being kinky. In truth I never thought I’d truly identify as non-monogamous and I never imagined I’d be truly happy to see someone I was […]

March 19, 2018