[Life] Before, After & Letting Love In


#WickedWednesday, Emotional Well-being, Friendship, Life, Love, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

I had multiple ideas for the before and after prompt. Some fictional. Some fact, some sexy, some not. Most of the ones based on personal experiences are long since past, while the after maybe still remain in my life in terms of being part of my life experience it isn’t ongoing as such. Then I […]

January 8, 2019

[Erotica] The Rules


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, Bisexuality, Erotica, Friendship, Love, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality

Image Via Pixabay ‘Look, you know the rules. We can’t.’ I did know the rules or should I say his rules and I thought they were fucking stupid. Not least of all because they weren’t my rules, but they were still imposing on my life and spoiling my fun. I wouldn’t mind if she was […]

November 26, 2018

[Erotica] Addressing His Needs


#MasturbationMonday, #SinfulSunday, #SoSS, BDSM, D/s, Erotica, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Love

Image via Pinterest. Source Unknown.  I often mention Sinful Sunday on my blog, either when submitting an image or as part of #SoSS posts when I am able to do them. When perusing the submissions for the first weekend of June, which was a prompt week, one particular image inspired a line of thinking that […]

June 11, 2018

[Life] Crystal Balls, Being Too Nice and Falling In Love.


Community, Friendship, Life, Love, Self Expression, Self Reflection

These questions are from this weeks TMI Tuesday. If you would like to get involved then follow the link below and you will find all the questions and information on how to get involved. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, your future, what would you want to know? Crikey, […]

March 27, 2018

[Life] 5 Things That Have Helped Me Navigate Non-Monogamy


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, Emotional Well-being, Life, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Swinging

Image via Pixabay Ethical non-monogamy is something I knew very little about before joining the kink community. It’s then something I got involved in almost as a side effect of being kinky. In truth I never thought I’d truly identify as non-monogamous and I never imagined I’d be truly happy to see someone I was […]

March 19, 2018

[#SoSS] Therapy, Fucking and … More Fucking!


#SoSS, Friendship, Kink, Life, Love, Mental Health, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex, Social Media

Image via Pixabay Monday brought me my first, ‘well that’s a #SoSS post’ moment when I read The Therapist by Karin at theswingshift. This week saw me starting to share some of my experiences with mental health, part of which details how I never quite succeeded in sticking with therapy. That isn’t because I don’t […]

March 3, 2018

[Life] Communcation – It's Not Just For The Poly People


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, Emotional Well-being, Life, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay I read something on social media this week that got me thinking about how some my blog posts might be perceived, and wanted to talk about it a little more. The summary of the post was: “I get really annoyed by all this ‘polyamory’ advice about communicating. Monogamous people need to be […]

December 8, 2017