[Kink] Safewords Are My Kink!


BDSM, Kink, Limits

Image Via Pixabay The title is mildly misleading, safewords aren’t my kink per se but I am a big, big fan of safewords in kink and I previously wrote about them in my post What’s Your Safeword? That post covers much of what I think and feel about safewords in a balanced manner and with […]

April 10, 2019

[FemDom Friday] Even Hardcore Kinks Have Low Level Entry Points


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, D/s, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Limits, Sadomasochism, Self Expression

Image via Pixabay One of the most common reasons people tell me that they don’t feel like they can explore FemDom, even when the desire is there, is because they aren’t into ‘the right things’. Once again porn feeds into some absolutely legitimate and wonderful kinks, but often they portray the more advanced end of […]

September 7, 2018

[Erotica] Sexy Explorations


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Erotica, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Limits, Relationships, Sex, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay I wasn’t sure I had a Monday post in me this week, my preference is to write something I can share to Masturbation Monday and as gorgeous as this weeks prompt photo is I couldn’t seem to write anything in response to it, I think perhaps the gorgeousness of it overwhelmed me. […]

September 3, 2018

[FemDom Friday] It's Okay For Submissives To Have A Voice


BDSM, Communication, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Femdom, Limits, Relationships, Self Expression, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay My own D/s dynamic only comes into play when we engage in kinky scenes. However I stand by the message of this article regardless of whether you have an in scene dynamic only or a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic and I am prepared for the onslaught of emails telling me I am wrong, […]

August 31, 2018

[Kink] Nurse Floss Will See You Now!


#WickedWednesday, BDSM, Consent, D/s, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Limits, Sadomasochism, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Content Warning: Contains thoughts surrounding medical play, blood play, needles and mobility aids as kink equipment. When I first saw this weeks prompt I was going to attempt a piece of erotica based around one of the only uniforms that I’d like to involve in my own kinky fun, the more I thought on it […]

August 15, 2018

[Kink] Love Me Some Face Slapping


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Consent, D/s, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Kink of the Week, Limits, Sadomasochism, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay This isn’t a declaration I make very often, be it to his face or on this blog, but I love Bakji loads. Like serious warm and fuzzy feels. He is a wonderful man and he makes me so happy to have him in my life. I’d never want to harm him and […]

August 6, 2018

[Kink] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Trigger Plans.


BDSM, Communication, Consent, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Limits, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Switchy Girl's Guide

Image via Pixabay Try as we might to ensure all our BDSM scenes and play session go smoothly, there is always a chance of something not going according to plan. When an action, phrase or scenario stimulates a reaction in an individual we refer to it as a trigger. Trigger – an experience that provokes […]

April 9, 2018

A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Frenzy, Drop and FOMO


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Limits, Self Reflection, Submission, Switchy Girl's Guide, Topping

Image via Pixabay FOMO – Fear Of Missing Out Frenzy, drop and FOMO are to my mind a trio of spoil sports who given half the chance will definitely ruin our kinky fun. Knowing that they are always lurking around the corner ready to attack is half the battle, accepting they will happen and learning […]

February 12, 2018