[Life] 5 Things That Have Helped Me Navigate Non-Monogamy


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, Emotional Well-being, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Ethical non-monogamy is something I knew very little about before joining the kink community. It’s then something I got involved in almost as a side effect of being kinky. In truth I never thought I’d truly identify as non-monogamous and I never imagined I’d be truly happy to see someone I was […]

March 19, 2018

[#SoSS] Sharing Is Caring #3


#SoSS, Kink, Life, Mental Health, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex

Image via Pixabay Monday brought me my first, ‘well that’s a #SoSS post’ moment when I read The Therapist by Karin at theswingshift. This week saw me starting to share some of my experiences with mental health, part of which details how I never quite succeeded in sticking with therapy. That isn’t because I don’t […]

March 3, 2018

[Kink] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Munches and Fetish Clubs


#ProudToBeKinky, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Kink, Life, Relationships, Switchy Girl's Guide

Image via Pixabay As a co-host of a podcast for which the tagline is ‘a podcast covering the social and interpersonal side of kink, Fetish and BDSM’, it will probably come as no surprise that I spend a lot of time talking about munches and Fetish events. Before I regale you all with why I […]

January 15, 2018

[Life] Communcation – It's Not Just For The Poly People


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, Emotional Well-being, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay I read something on social media this week that got me thinking about how some my blog posts might be perceived, and wanted to talk about it a little more. The summary of the post was: “I get really annoyed by all this ‘polyamory’ advice about communicating. Monogamous people need to be […]

December 8, 2017

[Life] Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Reflection, Sex

Image via Pixabay Back in September I wrote ‘The Feeling When … New Things Are Awesome’, and yes I’m aware I use the word awesome far too much, but I like it, loads, so you’re stuck with it. In that writing I covered some of my thoughts on compersion, and how I’d finally experienced it […]

November 22, 2017

The Feeling When … New Things Are Awesome


Alternative Lifestyles, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality

Back in February I wrote Poly Ramblings From a Maybe Mono Mind which probably gave the impression I should give up on non-monogamy. Then last week I wrote Exploring New (and Sexy) Things , I realise the two together possibly make for confusing reading, but I think both are really important in showing the journey I have […]

September 8, 2017

Quickies, Not Just For Sex!


#ProudToBeKinky, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Femdom, Kink, Life, Relationships, Sex

Myself and Bakji have started a spin-off podcast called ‘FemDom and Fetish Fun’ initially the plan was to release it to the general public, but after some feedback from our kind Patrons on Patreon we have decided it would be the perfect thing to offer then for their support. They are shorter than our normal […]

June 21, 2017