[Life] Before, After & Letting Love In


#WickedWednesday, Emotional Well-being, Life, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

I had multiple ideas for the before and after prompt. Some fictional. Some fact, some sexy, some not. Most of the ones based on personal experiences are long since past, while the after maybe still remain in my life in terms of being part of my life experience it isn’t ongoing as such. Then I […]

January 8, 2019

[Community] Don't Be Like Gollum


Community, Kink, Life

There’s a chance I will get shot down in flames for this post and I’m sat here weighing up the pros and cons of having my rant and I’ve decided I’m willing to lose the readers that disagree.   Without further ado here are the points I’d like to discuss: Being pretentious doesn’t improve your […]

December 14, 2018

[Relationships] My Motivation for Non-Monogamy


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex

This past weekend we had two extra sets of hands to aid with our sexy fun and no matter how far along the non-monogamy journey I go, these kinds of experiences are always something I find myself reflecting on in much greater detail than I do our one-on-one experiences. After our wonderful friends had left […]

November 14, 2018

[Life] Me, Myself and Harry Potter


#WickedWednesday, Emotional Well-being, Life, Mental Health, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image Via Pixabay I’m a big fan of encouraging self care in others, I think it is really important to look after both your physical and your emotional well-being. Seeing as I realise the importance of this one would think that I am excellent at my own self-care, in this case one would be wrong. […]

October 3, 2018