When I was little, from the time when my parents got divorced, up until my Mum married my step-dad we were pretty poor. I’d say that was a time span of about 4 years from being two until I was about six. Now when I say poor, I mean exactly that. I remember our boiler […]
When I saw this week’s Wicked Wednesday prompt was ‘apologize’ I had two thoughts, firstly I don’t apologise for who I am, secondly, I apologise for who I am all the time and if perhaps I’m not apologising for being me, I am at least trying to be the most suitable version of myself for […]
As many of you will have read I’m on a bit of a kink hiatus at the moment. Which I’m feeling pretty chill about and despite the fact it has taken me back to single lady status, it is a decision I am entirely positive about. Whether my hiatus last a few months, a few […]
The word freedom might only be seven letters long, but my goodness does it pack a mighty punch when you really get down to what it means for you as an individual. I think one person’s freedom might well look like a cage to an onlooker. For some of us, freedom is physical, for others […]
Yesterday I shared Choosing Lust Over Love for this week’s Food4Thought, and I’m happy with the direction I went in for that post. It was honest and it’s genuinely reflective of how I feel. Then I began reading all your posts and realised how wildly cynical I must seem. Even though I tried not to […]
When I decided upon ‘The things we do for love’ as a topic for Food4Thought I won’t lie, I was thinking of dirty things. Partly inspired by the post I read from Girl on the Net, Anything he wants: love, piss and foolishness, which made me ponder all the delicious, sexy and hopefully filthy things […]
The current Tell Me About prompt of resets has been calling to me all week, and I’ve been telling myself it wouldn’t be right to hijack that prompt for the post I need to write. The truth is though it’s the notion of a reset that is giving me a viewpoint that makes it possible […]
When I left my ex-husband one of the things I heard more than once was a variation of my actions and decisions being ‘out of character’ and I wondered then and I still wonder now if that was ever really true. As I look back on my life I can in some ways see different […]
I realise the title of this post is probably completely baffling and I’ll be honest this isn’t the kind of post I thought I’d be writing when I embarked on my That’s My Kink posts at the beginning of the year. Things change though and I think this is a post I need to write […]
Who would I be and what would life be like if I had made different decisions along the way? It is impossible for me not to ponder these questions given some of the decisions I’ve made and some of the situations life has handed to me. Largely though I always come back to the same […]
