There are so many ways to look at the concept of ‘home’ and I can relate to many of them, even if some of them don’t fit my current situation. It’s strange because for this week’s F4Thought prompt post May asked me ‘What do you think it must be like to be homeless?’ and I […]
The best gift you are ever going to give someone, is the permission to feel safe in their own skin. To feel worthy. To feel like they are enough. – Hannah Brencher I mentioned in a recent post that I’ve been wearing less underwear, and I’m hoping the wonderful Violet will allow socks as my […]
I have a busy brain and I’m not very good at turning it off and that is primarily the root of my on and off existence with anxiety. Last year I pushed my brain to work harder than it ever has before. I made it create endless pages of content for the blog whilst also […]
I’ve written about pain and masochism before, both in the posts linked to and within a variety of other posts on other topics, but as with many of the current topics being presented by some of my favourite memes the Tell Me About topic of pain is very timely. Many folks paired their post on […]
I’ve been thinking a lot about intimacy lately, a change in relationship status and thinking about what you want from future relationships makes that an understandable line of thought. Back in November, I wrote Love Tells; How Do I Spot Them? While it wasn’t a question I asked in the post, I think part of […]
‘I’ve been told, I’ve been told to get you off my mind But I hope I never lose the bruises that you left behind Oh my lord, oh my lord, I need you by my side’ Bruises by Lewis Capaldi I know for sure ‘Bruises’ by Lewis Capaldi isn’t meant to be an ode to […]
I saw a lot of people on Twitter discussing their first orgasms of 2020 and in response, I shared the following tweet … It was fairly cryptic and I purposely left a lot of information out just to be a tease, because that is how I roll, some of the guesses as to how I […]
2019 has been an interesting year, I’m honestly not sure it delivered what I expected, but as I sit here writing, 2 days into 2020 I don’t think I have any regrets over how 2019 panned out for me. I am genuinely looking forward to what this year might bring my way, but before I […]
There are things I never wanted. Despite the fact they are dirty, delicious and understandably appealing. There are things I never needed because the very idea of inviting them into my life made my head whirl and my heart flutter. Those are the things that I find myself craving in the very deepest depths of […]
