[Menstruation Matters] Nurturing a Healthy Uterus


CW: Fertility issues, trying to conceive, loss of a parent I have always thought that Bee picked a perfect name for her Menstruation Matters meme because it does matter in so many ways, to so many different people and I think the intensity with which it matters to those it affects often varies throughout our […]

June 25, 2020

[Life] Beautiful New Beginnings


‘There will come a time when you believe everything is finished; That will be the beginning.’ – Louis L’amour The quote above has been presented to us by LittleSwitchBitch for her new meme Quote Quest. Please do check the link out, and consider getting involved and supporting one of the loveliest bloggers around. The minute […]

June 19, 2020

[Life] The Intimacy of Washing


I think the last time anyone else washed me was when I was a small child. When I was with my ex we often showered together but the element of sensually or even passionately washing each other was either overlooked or rushed through to get to the end goal of PiV sex. I have often […]

June 11, 2020

[Blogging] Why I’m Leaving The Smut Marathon


I shared a post this week and a had a little rant on Twitter and I meant every word I said in them. There is a lot of two-faced bullshit occurring within this community with regards to how we treat folks across the LGBTQIA+ spectrum and I hate that. A few folks were kind enough […]

June 8, 2020

[Photography] Identity


I was totally stumped for a prompt image for this weekend’s Sinful Sunday, then I wonder if Violet had any words beginning with i in her June selection of Big Sexy Words and as it happens she does, identity. I then realised it was a perfect time to showcase my snazzy new trousers which I […]

June 7, 2020

[Life] Why I Think Hate Is An Easy, Lazy Thing!


Content Warning: This writing tackles bigotry, hate and ignorance. I give a further warning along the way for language that is homophobic, transphobic, body shaming and racist. To be clear I do not hold these views but the language is used to show what I grew up hearing. Earlier this week I shared Love Takes […]

June 6, 2020

[Life] Hopes & Fears


CW: Fertility Issues/Trying to Conceive I have been incredibly privileged during lockdown for many reasons. Financially I was looked after well by my employee. I have a good relationship with my son’s Dad and we have co-parented with a similar attitude throughout this whole crisis and it is definitely a blessing to have not been […]

June 5, 2020

[Life] The Little Things


As you have read many times on this blog since Mr F and I began dating I am very sexually satisfied right now. Whatever it is that makes two people sexually compatible, we have it and lots of it. It is refreshing, liberating and it makes me desire him and love him in ways that […]

June 4, 2020