[Mental Health] Being a Grinch at Christmas


Emotional Well-being, Mental Health, Sex Bloggers for Mental Health

It’s not even December yet and I’ve already expressed my displeasure multiple times that Christmas is coming. I have no qualms in telling everyone that I hate Christmas and I must seem like the biggest Grinch going. I’m going to tell you all a secret though, I don’t hate Christmas, but I don’t feel like […]

November 17, 2019

[Life] Before, After & Letting Love In


#WickedWednesday, Emotional Well-being, Life, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

I had multiple ideas for the before and after prompt. Some fictional. Some fact, some sexy, some not. Most of the ones based on personal experiences are long since past, while the after maybe still remain in my life in terms of being part of my life experience it isn’t ongoing as such. Then I […]

January 8, 2019

[Life] Me, Myself and Harry Potter


#WickedWednesday, Emotional Well-being, Life, Mental Health, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image Via Pixabay I’m a big fan of encouraging self care in others, I think it is really important to look after both your physical and your emotional well-being. Seeing as I realise the importance of this one would think that I am excellent at my own self-care, in this case one would be wrong. […]

October 3, 2018

[Life] My Kinky Roots


#WickedWednesday, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Life, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Content Warning: Abortion/Medical Termination/Baby Loss. Please do not read this if any of those subject matters are triggering for you. This is not a graphic post, but I suspect it will be very emotive for many people.  If you’ve ever listened to the Off the Cuffs Podcast (OCPKink), you will hear them […]

September 19, 2018

[FemDom Friday] It's Okay For Submissives To Have A Voice


BDSM, Communication, Emotional Well-being, Femdom, Limits, Relationships, Self Expression

Image via Pixabay My own D/s dynamic only comes into play when we engage in kinky scenes. However I stand by the message of this article regardless of whether you have an in scene dynamic only or a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic and I am prepared for the onslaught of emails telling me I am wrong, […]

August 31, 2018

[Kink] Communication: It's Good For Ewe


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Consent, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Apologies for the terrible pun of title, but I couldn’t resist when I decided to use this photo off Pixabay for my featured image.  One of the most recurring topics of conversation about how to do kink ‘right’ is about communication. What kinks people have and how they enjoy them is 100% […]

August 27, 2018

[Life] Wicked Women


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, Community, Emotional Well-being, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay I love women. Well I love all genders, but this post is specifically about women. But I promise I’m not leaving the rest of you out. You will get your post another day. Growing up I really struggled to make friends with or maintain friendships with other girls. There was always an […]

June 6, 2018

[Kink] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Trigger Plans.


BDSM, Communication, Consent, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Limits, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Switchy Girl's Guide

Image via Pixabay Try as we might to ensure all our BDSM scenes and play session go smoothly, there is always a chance of something not going according to plan. When an action, phrase or scenario stimulates a reaction in an individual we refer to it as a trigger. Trigger – an experience that provokes […]

April 9, 2018