[Life] Before, After & Letting Love In


#WickedWednesday, Break-Ups, Emotional Well-being, Friendship, January Jump Start, Life, Love, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Writing Prompt

I had multiple ideas for the before and after prompt. Some fictional. Some fact, some sexy, some not. Most of the ones based on personal experiences are long since past, while the after maybe still remain in my life in terms of being part of my life experience it isn’t ongoing as such. Then I […]

January 8, 2019

[Life] Me, Myself and Harry Potter


#WickedWednesday, Emotional Well-being, Food For Thought Friday, Life, Mental Health, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Writing Prompt

Image Via Pixabay I’m a big fan of encouraging self care in others, I think it is really important to look after both your physical and your emotional well-being. Seeing as I realise the importance of this one would think that I am excellent at my own self-care, in this case one would be wrong. […]

October 3, 2018

[Life] My Kinky Roots


#WickedWednesday, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Life, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Content Warning: Abortion/Medical Termination/Baby Loss. Please do not read this if any of those subject matters are triggering for you. This is not a graphic post, but I suspect it will be very emotive for many people.  If you’ve ever listened to the Off the Cuffs Podcast (OCPKink), you will hear them […]

September 19, 2018

[FemDom Friday] It's Okay For Submissives To Have A Voice


BDSM, Communication, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Femdom, Limits, Relationships, Self Expression, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay My own D/s dynamic only comes into play when we engage in kinky scenes. However I stand by the message of this article regardless of whether you have an in scene dynamic only or a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic and I am prepared for the onslaught of emails telling me I am wrong, […]

August 31, 2018

[Kink] Communication: It's Good For Ewe


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Consent, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Apologies for the terrible pun of title, but I couldn’t resist when I decided to use this photo off Pixabay for my featured image.  One of the most recurring topics of conversation about how to do kink ‘right’ is about communication. What kinks people have and how they enjoy them is 100% […]

August 27, 2018

[Life] Wicked Women


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, Community, Emotional Well-being, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay I love women. Well I love all genders, but this post is specifically about women. But I promise I’m not leaving the rest of you out. You will get your post another day. Growing up I really struggled to make friends with or maintain friendships with other girls. There was always an […]

June 6, 2018

[Kink] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Trigger Plans.


BDSM, Communication, Consent, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Limits, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Switchy Girl's Guide

Image via Pixabay Try as we might to ensure all our BDSM scenes and play session go smoothly, there is always a chance of something not going according to plan. When an action, phrase or scenario stimulates a reaction in an individual we refer to it as a trigger. Trigger – an experience that provokes […]

April 9, 2018

[SinfulSunday] Being Vulnerable (It's Hard To Do)


#SinfulSunday, Blogs, Emotional Well-being, Life, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Social Media, Twitter

I’ve been thinking a lot about ways in which I feel vulnerable and the actions I take to try and protect myself from getting hurt, or simply from feeling unpleasant emotions. I try my best to be open and honest on my blog, and I am … for the most part. There are elements of […]

April 8, 2018

[SinfulSunday] When In Doubt Wear Red!


#SinfulSunday, Community, Emotional Well-being, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Social Media, Twitter

Self care comes in many forms. For me it is matching my outer me with my inner me. Recently they have felt a little bit out of sync so I needed to redress the balance. I’m not sure what is says about me that black and red is currently an accurate portrayal of my innermost […]

March 25, 2018