New Year. New Plans. New Posts.
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New Year. New Plans. New Posts.

I am a firm believer in making changes when you want to, not holding off until ‘tomorrow’ and I have stuck to this at many points in my life, making changes for the better when they are right for me, and not waiting until a new week, a new month or for the big one, … Continue reading

Communcation. It’s Not Just For The Poly People
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Communcation. It’s Not Just For The Poly People

I read something on social media this week that got me thinking about how some my blog posts might be perceived, and wanted to talk about it a little more. The summary of the post was: “I get really annoyed by all this ‘polyamory’ advice about communicating. Monogamous people need to be doing that too. … Continue reading

Feeling Secure within Alternative Relationship Models
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Feeling Secure within Alternative Relationship Models

In my post ‘Compersion, Trust and Brain Niggles’ I spoke about how my sleeping brain was causing me to feel insecure, and how security looks different within an alternative relationship model. I’m far from being an expert on this matter, and I have so much still to learn, there are some things I’ve figured out … Continue reading

Episode 54 – Incompatibility Red Flags
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Episode 54 – Incompatibility Red Flags

You can find out more about the podcast here, you can also listen on most available podcast apps or via our Libsyn Page. While red flags usually refer to those behaviors that would signal a relationship is unsafe or unhealthy, in this episode we are discussing the things that are incompatibility red flags. Things that … Continue reading