[Kink] Communication: It's Good For Ewe


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Consent, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Apologies for the terrible pun of title, but I couldn’t resist when I decided to use this photo off Pixabay for my featured image.  One of the most recurring topics of conversation about how to do kink ‘right’ is about communication. What kinks people have and how they enjoy them is 100% […]

August 27, 2018

[Kink] Nurse Floss Will See You Now!


#WickedWednesday, BDSM, Consent, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Limits, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Content Warning: Contains thoughts surrounding medical play, blood play, needles and mobility aids as kink equipment. When I first saw this weeks prompt I was going to attempt a piece of erotica based around one of the only uniforms that I’d like to involve in my own kinky fun, the more I thought on it […]

August 15, 2018

[Kink] Love Me Some Face Slapping


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Consent, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Kink of the Week, Limits, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay This isn’t a declaration I make very often, be it to his face or on this blog, but I love Bakji loads. Like serious warm and fuzzy feels. He is a wonderful man and he makes me so happy to have him in my life. I’d never want to harm him and […]

August 6, 2018

[Kink] The Cone of Shame is Fun with Friends


#WickedWednesday, BDSM, Communication, Consent, Fetish, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay For last weeks Wicked Wednesday I wrote a piece of erotica, ‘Cool Shower- Part 2‘ that contained humiliation as its main theme and a little while back I wrote ‘(Super Sexy) Thoughts on Erotic Humiliation’, and recently it is a kink that I have been thinking about more and more and I […]

April 25, 2018

[Kink] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Trigger Plans.


BDSM, Communication, Consent, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Limits, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Switchy Girl's Guide

Image via Pixabay Try as we might to ensure all our BDSM scenes and play session go smoothly, there is always a chance of something not going according to plan. When an action, phrase or scenario stimulates a reaction in an individual we refer to it as a trigger. Trigger – an experience that provokes […]

April 9, 2018

[Kink] Cuckolding. It's Not Completely Cuckoo!


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Consent, Cuckolding, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Sex, Sexuality

Image Via Pixabay Cuckolding. Is It What You Think It Is? The dictionary definition of a cuckold is, ‘the husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision.’ In terms of cuckolding as a kink or Fetish, there is a lot missing from that sentence to get a clear picture of why people […]

March 30, 2018