[Erotica] Cleaning Up Her Mess


#MasturbationMonday, Communication, D/s, Erotica, Fetish, Kink, Passion, Sex, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay Content Warning: Themes of Humiliation and Degradation included  ‘It’s frivolous. You’re frivolous. Don’t you realise some us struggle to pay our bills each month.’ The conversation was always the same with Jane, I wouldn’t  mind so much if she wasn’t nursing a rather expensive bottle of wine as we spoke, and if […]

September 10, 2018

[Erotica] Sexy Explorations


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Erotica, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Limits, Relationships, Sex, Submission, Topping, Writing, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay I wasn’t sure I had a Monday post in me this week, my preference is to write something I can share to Masturbation Monday and as gorgeous as this weeks prompt photo is I couldn’t seem to write anything in response to it, I think perhaps the gorgeousness of it overwhelmed me. […]

September 3, 2018

[FemDom Friday] It's Okay For Submissives To Have A Voice


BDSM, Communication, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Femdom, Limits, Relationships, Self Expression, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay My own D/s dynamic only comes into play when we engage in kinky scenes. However I stand by the message of this article regardless of whether you have an in scene dynamic only or a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic and I am prepared for the onslaught of emails telling me I am wrong, […]

August 31, 2018

[Kink] Communication: It's Good For Ewe


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Consent, D/s, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Apologies for the terrible pun of title, but I couldn’t resist when I decided to use this photo off Pixabay for my featured image.  One of the most recurring topics of conversation about how to do kink ‘right’ is about communication. What kinks people have and how they enjoy them is 100% […]

August 27, 2018

[Kink] The Cone of Shame is Fun with Friends


#WickedWednesday, BDSM, Communication, Consent, D/s, Fetish, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Writing Prompt

Image via Pixabay For last weeks Wicked Wednesday I wrote a piece of erotica, ‘Cool Shower- Part 2‘ that contained humiliation as its main theme and a little while back I wrote ‘(Super Sexy) Thoughts on Erotic Humiliation’, and recently it is a kink that I have been thinking about more and more and I […]

April 25, 2018

[Kink] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … Trigger Plans.


BDSM, Communication, Consent, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Limits, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Switchy Girl's Guide

Image via Pixabay Try as we might to ensure all our BDSM scenes and play session go smoothly, there is always a chance of something not going according to plan. When an action, phrase or scenario stimulates a reaction in an individual we refer to it as a trigger. Trigger – an experience that provokes […]

April 9, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Be Prepared To Find New Kinks


BDSM, Communication, D/s, Femdom, Kink

Image via Pixabay This one is actually great advice for anyone exploring kink, fetish and BDSM, regardless of the initial interest that begins their exploration. Without exception every kinky person I have had in depth conversations with about kink has discussed at least one kink they never knew they had or never believed they would […]

April 6, 2018

[Kink] Cuckolding. It's Not Completely Cuckoo!


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Consent, Cuckolding, D/s, Erotic Humiliation, Female Led Relationships, Femdom, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Sex, Sexuality

Image Via Pixabay Cuckolding. Is It What You Think It Is? The dictionary definition of a cuckold is, ‘the husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision.’ In terms of cuckolding as a kink or Fetish, there is a lot missing from that sentence to get a clear picture of why people […]

March 30, 2018

[Life] 5 Things That Have Helped Me Navigate Non-Monogamy


Alternative Lifestyles, Communication, CooperSBeckett, Emotional Well-being, Life, Love, Nonmonogamy, Polyamory, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Swinging, Twitter

Image via Pixabay Ethical non-monogamy is something I knew very little about before joining the kink community. It’s then something I got involved in almost as a side effect of being kinky. In truth I never thought I’d truly identify as non-monogamous and I never imagined I’d be truly happy to see someone I was […]

March 19, 2018

[Kink] Is Confidence Affecting Your Kink?


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Blogs, Communication, D/s, Femdom, Kink, Relationships, Submission, Topping

Image via Pixabay If you are human, and I’m assuming most of my readers are, there is a chance that at some point in life you’ve had a crisis of confidence. More times than I can count I have heard someone use low confidence levels as to why they are too nervous to try a […]

February 23, 2018