[FemDom Friday] It's Okay For Submissives To Have A Voice


BDSM, Communication, Emotional Well-being, Femdom, Limits, Relationships, Self Expression

Image via Pixabay My own D/s dynamic only comes into play when we engage in kinky scenes. However I stand by the message of this article regardless of whether you have an in scene dynamic only or a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic and I am prepared for the onslaught of emails telling me I am wrong, […]

August 31, 2018

[Kink] Communication: It's Good For Ewe


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Consent, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Apologies for the terrible pun of title, but I couldn’t resist when I decided to use this photo off Pixabay for my featured image.  One of the most recurring topics of conversation about how to do kink ‘right’ is about communication. What kinks people have and how they enjoy them is 100% […]

August 27, 2018

[Kink] Nurse Floss Will See You Now!


#WickedWednesday, BDSM, Consent, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Limits, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Content Warning: Contains thoughts surrounding medical play, blood play, needles and mobility aids as kink equipment. When I first saw this weeks prompt I was going to attempt a piece of erotica based around one of the only uniforms that I’d like to involve in my own kinky fun, the more I thought on it […]

August 15, 2018

[TMI Tuesday] Three Is The Magic Number


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Bisexuality, Fetish, Kink, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex, Sexuality

Image via Pixabay It’s been a while since I joined in with TMI Tuesday, but I really do find it a fun way for my readers to get to know me better. Hopefully with more time to blog now I will be getting involved on a weekly basis. Please do consider getting involved and take […]

August 14, 2018

[Kink] Love Me Some Face Slapping


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Consent, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Kink of the Week, Limits, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay This isn’t a declaration I make very often, be it to his face or on this blog, but I love Bakji loads. Like serious warm and fuzzy feels. He is a wonderful man and he makes me so happy to have him in my life. I’d never want to harm him and […]

August 6, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Your sub Doesn't Have To Be Weak!


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Self Expression

Image via Pixabay Submissive men don’t exactly have the best reputation, and while FemDom isn’t only for submissive men, it is the go to notion when people imagine FemDom. Which is a crying shame because FemDom is sexy for all genders. For the purposes of this post though, predominantly due to outside views, I am […]

August 3, 2018