[FemDom Friday] FemDom Can Be Sex Inclusive


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Relationships, Sex

Image via Pixabay ‘Don’t you miss having sex?’ A question I have been asked many times with regards to being into FemDom. It’s hard to know where to begin with unraveling the myth behind this particular question, so let’s just acknowledge one thing straight away … FemDom can be sex inclusive. The beauty of being […]

September 21, 2018

[Kink] I Am a Medical Masturbator!


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Fetish, Kink, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Content Warning – Medical Play, Blood Play, Needle Play including images of needles in use and bleeding post use. My recent post ‘Nurse Floss Will See You Now’ was something of a landmark blog post for me, it discussed some elements of my kinky interests that I had not shared, except perhaps […]

September 18, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Even Hardcore Kinks Have Low Level Entry Points


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Limits, Self Expression

Image via Pixabay One of the most common reasons people tell me that they don’t feel like they can explore FemDom, even when the desire is there, is because they aren’t into ‘the right things’. Once again porn feeds into some absolutely legitimate and wonderful kinks, but often they portray the more advanced end of […]

September 7, 2018

[Kink] Getting Risky Makes Me Frisky


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Community, Fetish, Kink, Kink of the Week, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay When I saw the Kink of The Week was risky sex I immediately got excited, then I realised I probably don’t have much risky sex and felt a bit deflated. When I sat and pondered my reactions I realised a two things: I assumed in my own mind risky sex alluded to […]

September 5, 2018

[Kink] A Switchy Girl's Guide To … BDSM Roles and Labels


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Community, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay When you first venture into the kink community, whether that’s by going to a munch or by joining something like Fetlife one of the first questions you are likely to be asked, in form or other, is about how you identify in terms of a BDSM role. For many people the role […]

September 4, 2018

[FemDom Friday] It's Okay For Submissives To Have A Voice


BDSM, Communication, Emotional Well-being, Femdom, Limits, Relationships, Self Expression

Image via Pixabay My own D/s dynamic only comes into play when we engage in kinky scenes. However I stand by the message of this article regardless of whether you have an in scene dynamic only or a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic and I am prepared for the onslaught of emails telling me I am wrong, […]

August 31, 2018

[Kink] Communication: It's Good For Ewe


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Communication, Consent, Emotional Well-being, Kink, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Apologies for the terrible pun of title, but I couldn’t resist when I decided to use this photo off Pixabay for my featured image.  One of the most recurring topics of conversation about how to do kink ‘right’ is about communication. What kinks people have and how they enjoy them is 100% […]

August 27, 2018