[That’s My Kink] Sadism


BDSM, That's My Kink

In last week’s That’s My Kink I covered masochism and it was very much about the personal journey I’ve taken with it. While masochism was one of the first kinks I played with, sadism came along a little later even though I had known for a long time that it was something I wanted to […]

April 25, 2019

[That’s My Kink] Masochism


BDSM, That's My Kink

Image originally posted as X Marks the Spot Sadism and masochism are kinks that can sometimes seem a little alarming, both to people who realise they identify that way and to onlookers who do not understand why someone who enjoys receiving or inflicting pain. I am some who enjoys both giving and receiving pain in […]

April 18, 2019

[Kink] Safewords Are My Kink!


BDSM, Kink, Limits

Image Via Pixabay The title is mildly misleading, safewords aren’t my kink per se but I am a big, big fan of safewords in kink and I previously wrote about them in my post What’s Your Safeword? That post covers much of what I think and feel about safewords in a balanced manner and with […]

April 10, 2019

[That’s My Kink] Rough Play


BDSM, Kink, That's My Kink

Before you start you might like to read ‘That’s My Kink – An Introduction‘. Last week I shared Sex Technicalities: The Woes and The Worries and yesterday my post Exploring Virginity went live I am worried that between the two of them I might seem a little bit down on sex with men and somewhat […]

January 24, 2019

[Kink] Self Discovery Through Sensual FemDom


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Erotic Journal Challenge, Femdom, Kink, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Brigit Delaney has started an Erotic Journal Challenge on her blog and when I saw her first prompt was ‘Sensuality (The Five Senses)’ I instantly knew what I want to write about. I also decided that I would approach these posts with a more journal entry style. Which means I might not endeavour to make […]

January 6, 2019

[That’s My Kink] An Introduction!


BDSM, Kink, That's My Kink

FlossDoesLife readers and listeners of #ProudToBeKinky could probably list a fair number of my kinks. Some, like FemDom, get a lot of coverage, others like using gags, are just a fleeting mention. Then there are the kinks I’m curious about but haven’t tried yet, but that doesn’t make my interest in them any less valid. […]

January 3, 2019