[That’s My Kink] Sadism


BDSM, That's My Kink

In last week’s That’s My Kink I covered masochism and it was very much about the personal journey I’ve taken with it. While masochism was one of the first kinks I played with, sadism came along a little later even though I had known for a long time that it was something I wanted to […]

April 25, 2019

[That’s My Kink] Masochism


BDSM, That's My Kink

Image originally posted as X Marks the Spot Sadism and masochism are kinks that can sometimes seem a little alarming, both to people who realise they identify that way and to onlookers who do not understand why someone who enjoys receiving or inflicting pain. I am some who enjoys both giving and receiving pain in […]

April 18, 2019

[Kink] Safewords Are My Kink!


BDSM, Kink, Limits

Image Via Pixabay The title is mildly misleading, safewords aren’t my kink per se but I am a big, big fan of safewords in kink and I previously wrote about them in my post What’s Your Safeword? That post covers much of what I think and feel about safewords in a balanced manner and with […]

April 10, 2019

[That’s My Kink] Rough Play


BDSM, Kink, That's My Kink

Before you start you might like to read ‘That’s My Kink – An Introduction‘. Last week I shared Sex Technicalities: The Woes and The Worries and yesterday my post Exploring Virginity went live I am worried that between the two of them I might seem a little bit down on sex with men and somewhat […]

January 24, 2019

[Kink] Self Discovery Through Sensual FemDom


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Erotic Journal Challenge, Femdom, Kink, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Brigit Delaney has started an Erotic Journal Challenge on her blog and when I saw her first prompt was ‘Sensuality (The Five Senses)’ I instantly knew what I want to write about. I also decided that I would approach these posts with a more journal entry style. Which means I might not endeavour to make […]

January 6, 2019

[That’s My Kink] An Introduction!


BDSM, Kink, That's My Kink

FlossDoesLife readers and listeners of #ProudToBeKinky could probably list a fair number of my kinks. Some, like FemDom, get a lot of coverage, others like using gags, are just a fleeting mention. Then there are the kinks I’m curious about but haven’t tried yet, but that doesn’t make my interest in them any less valid. […]

January 3, 2019

[Sex] Do I need a P in my V?


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Bisexuality, Kink, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex, Sexuality

This week on Instagram someone asked if they could make an enquiry about something personal, it turned out that their question was regarding whether or not I would class myself as a ‘size queen’. I replied that no, size of the penis was not something that I prioritised in my partners. I explained that the […]

December 12, 2018

[FemDom Friday] The Secret to Success


BDSM, Femdom, Kink

Image via Pixabay One of the most common questions I get asked about FemDom is ‘where do I begin’. After establishing that your partner wants to be Dominated and that you want to do the Dominating people suddenly panic about how to go about doing that, and what formula they can follow to get it […]

October 12, 2018