[Kink] Safewords Are My Kink!


BDSM, Kink, Limits

Image Via Pixabay The title is mildly misleading, safewords aren’t my kink per se but I am a big, big fan of safewords in kink and I previously wrote about them in my post What’s Your Safeword? That post covers much of what I think and feel about safewords in a balanced manner and with […]

April 10, 2019

[That’s My Kink] Rough Play


BDSM, Kink, That's My Kink

Before you start you might like to read ‘That’s My Kink – An Introduction‘. Last week I shared ‘Techinical Sex: The Woes and The Worries’ and yesterday my post ‘Exploring Virginity’ went live I am worried that between the two of them I might seem a little bit down on sex with men and somewhat […]

January 24, 2019

[Kink] Self Discovery Through Sensual FemDom


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Erotic Journal Challenge, Femdom, Kink, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Brigit Delaney has started an Erotic Journal Challenge on her blog and when I saw her first prompt was ‘Sensuality (The Five Senses)’ I instantly knew what I want to write about. I also decided that I would approach these posts with a more journal entry style. Which means I might not endeavour to make […]

January 6, 2019

[Sex] Do I need a P in my V?


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Bisexuality, Kink, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex, Sexuality

This week on Instagram someone asked if they could make an enquiry about something personal, it turned out that their question was regarding whether or not I would class myself as a ‘size queen’. I replied that no, size of the penis was not something that I prioritised in my partners. I explained that the […]

December 12, 2018

[Erotica] Alice's Adventures in Debauchery


#MasturbationMonday, BDSM, Erotica, Kink, Relationships, Sex

Featured images by Posy Churchgate and used with permission. ‘Alice! Alice! Stop this infernal daydreaming and listen to me, and while you’re at it take off those ridiculous socks!’ Alice raised her gaze slowly and looked at her husband, with a look that could not be mistaken for anything other than disdain. Her loving, adventurous […]

December 3, 2018