[Kink] Self Discovery Through Sensual FemDom


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Erotic Journal Challenge, Femdom, Kink, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Brigit Delaney has started an Erotic Journal Challenge on her blog and when I saw her first prompt was ‘Sensuality (The Five Senses)’ I instantly knew what I want to write about. I also decided that I would approach these posts with a more journal entry style. Which means I might not endeavour to make […]

January 6, 2019

[Sex] Do I need a P in my V?


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Bisexuality, Kink, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex, Sexuality

This week on Instagram someone asked if they could make an enquiry about something personal, it turned out that their question was regarding whether or not I would class myself as a ‘size queen’. I replied that no, size of the penis was not something that I prioritised in my partners. I explained that the […]

December 12, 2018

[Relationships] My Motivation for Non-Monogamy


#WickedWednesday, Alternative Lifestyles, Life, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex

This past weekend we had two extra sets of hands to aid with our sexy fun and no matter how far along the non-monogamy journey I go, these kinds of experiences are always something I find myself reflecting on in much greater detail than I do our one-on-one experiences. After our wonderful friends had left […]

November 14, 2018

[Relationships] Beneath the Umbrella of Non-Monogamy


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, Nonmonogamy, Relationships, Self Expression, Self Reflection, Sex

Image Via Pixabay A little while back I read a blog post that is no longer available about polyamory and swinging myths, it was a great post and it inspired me to talk about another type of alternative relationship model, non-monogamy. I wrote the article below for that blog, but later on in the week […]

November 12, 2018

[FemDom Friday] FemDom Can Be Sex Inclusive


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Femdom, Fetish, Kink, Relationships, Sex

Image via Pixabay ‘Don’t you miss having sex?’ A question I have been asked many times with regards to being into FemDom. It’s hard to know where to begin with unraveling the myth behind this particular question, so let’s just acknowledge one thing straight away … FemDom can be sex inclusive. The beauty of being […]

September 21, 2018

[Kink] I Am a Medical Masturbator!


#MasturbationMonday, Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Fetish, Kink, Self Expression, Self Reflection

Image via Pixabay Content Warning – Medical Play, Blood Play, Needle Play including images of needles in use and bleeding post use. My recent post ‘Nurse Floss Will See You Now’ was something of a landmark blog post for me, it discussed some elements of my kinky interests that I had not shared, except perhaps […]

September 18, 2018

[FemDom Friday] Even Hardcore Kinks Have Low Level Entry Points


Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, Erotic Humiliation, Femdom, Kink, Limits, Self Expression

Image via Pixabay One of the most common reasons people tell me that they don’t feel like they can explore FemDom, even when the desire is there, is because they aren’t into ‘the right things’. Once again porn feeds into some absolutely legitimate and wonderful kinks, but often they portray the more advanced end of […]

September 7, 2018