[Sex] New Obsessions – It’s All About the Dick


#MasturbationMonday, Sex / Monday, February 3rd, 2020

I was hoping to write a piece of erotica inspired by the gorgeous photo of Purple Sole and shared originally on their blog in a post titled Dom Rod. The trouble is I’ve got a bit of a one-track mind at the moment, and every idea I had ended with me thinking about the cock I’m acquainted with at the moment and this means there’s only one thing to do, a non-fiction post on my newly discovered love of cock!

First things first, I’ve never actively disliked nobs. In my formative years though they seemed a little scary and I could not for the life imagine one going inside me and the idea of touching one seemed utterly bizarre. I think they were just too abstract for me and because I had an inclination towards girls as well as fellas, I just went with the lady-loving and didn’t worry too much about getting it one with the penis enabled folks. 

I did fancy blokes though, so eventually, the penis fear would have to be conquered, by the time I was 19 curiosity and horniness had overtaken and apprehension I had and I had my first P.I.V experience and first blowjob experience. Both of which were alright, the guy I had my first experience of penetrative sex with used the phrase ‘no woman of mine won’t give blowjobs’ needless to say he did not get a blowjob off me! My ex-husband, therefore, became the first guy I gave head to and it was never something I excelled at. 

I try desperately to learn to deep throat, I tried all the tips and tricks I could find but I just never seemed that great at sucking dick. When I joined the kink community I discovered I was however good at all sorts of other things, like being an awesome rope bottom and a badass D-type, so I just rolled with that and was honest about my lack of skills in the dick department. 

With Bakji it became easier, I’m good at the types of handjobs he enjoys and I definitely gained more confidence when it came to pleasuring someone with a cock. In all honesty though that confidence was definitely linked to FemDom, without that I definitely went back to being a bit awkward and unsure of what I should be doing. 

When I decided to go on my kink hiatus I was so eager for some hot fuckery action. I was craving sex in all it’s forms, and being the queer hearted gal I am I was open to getting it on with hotties of all genders, but as it would happen, life sent me a cis-gendered man and so my journey with cock was about to take a new and exciting turn. 

After one of the first encounters I had with Mr F we both indulged in oral sex and afterwards, we both mentioned how for him it was something he had really enjoyed doing, which wasn’t always the case in previous sexual encounters. In turn, I explained that I wouldn’t usually have gone down on a guy quite this early on because blowjobs weren’t exactly my speciality. He said he could I was a bit hesitant, but he assumed it was because I was more inclined towards fucking women, so perhaps had more confidence in that area. 

He wasn’t wrong. I am always confident I will bring my A-Game when I’m fucking someone with a vulva. I am good at that. I know not one, not two but many, many ways to pleasure a lady. Which sound boastful, but I think the contrast between that level of confidence and the awkward and apprehensive approach I have when it comes to fucking with cocks is quite interesting. It’s also important to note before I tell you how I’m feeling at the moment. 

As Mr F and I continued our adventures in fuckery I realised I was practically salivating on the daily with how intensely I wanted his dick. It was a curious thing for me to take note of and the fact I wanted it in my mouth as often as I could get it was another eye-opening moment. Despite knowing I hadn’t been great that first time I still went back for more. I put that dick in my mouth over and over again and you know what? I’ve got freakin’ good at it. 

For the first time ever I get to enjoy hugely positive reactions while I’ve got a dick in my mouth. Moans, groans, expletives and words of encouragement that make me feel so amazing. I’ve read lots of tips from fellow bloggers and Twitter Lovelies about what makes a blowjob good, I’ve actioned them and I thank you all for your openness because they totally seem to have worked. 

I love the fact I am discovering that I can enjoy new things in this way. I recently post The Anal Adventure Begins and that too is a testament to all the ways in which I’m currently very open and eager to have the dick in all the ways. 

Both Mr F and I have commented on how good fucking each other feels and there are moments where we just utterly baffled by how amazing it is and with things like my newfound inclination towards having in all my holes, in all the ways, all the time it’s easy to find myself wondering why and looking for answers. I think though it’s just great chemistry, good timing and probably the influence of my ‘ooh I’m 35 so let’s fuck’ sexual awakening. 

I want to reiterate that it’s not that it wasn’t good for me before. I especially don’t want to seem disparaging of my time with Bakji, because he was a huge part of my blogging adventures and you have all read about how I enjoyed my time with him. That includes our sexual encounters, I think my biggest mistake there was not voicing how much I enjoyed them and how more would have been amazing. 

I am not making that mistake at the moment though. Asking for more is a daily occurrence and while daily fuckery isn’t an option, mores the pity, that doesn’t mean daily acknowledgement of desire and intention can’t happen. I’m also able to indulge in solo fun on some of these days which has become filled with thoughts of dick. Okay, specifically Mr F’s dick and my mind whirls with all the things he can do to me with it and I come so goddamn hard when I think of these things whilst fucking myself.

I definitely have lots more dick exploration to do, and I’ve yet to fully master the art of me on top fucking, but not going to lie we did have one seriously hot session of that, so I’m hopeful that this is something I will continue to get better at too. Especially as any hint of feeling self-conscious or worried about my performance is non-existent when we are naked together. I just feel good and sexy and desired and filled with an intense to need to fuck until we both collapse and I am truly grateful that it seems Mr F feels the same, which means his dick will be getting a lot of attention and I cannot wait for that. 

5 Replies to “[Sex] New Obsessions – It’s All About the Dick”

  1. I loved reading the female perspective on blowjobs. Thank you for that.

    And I chuckled out loud at “I definitely have lots more dick exploration to do”.

  2. I think the biggest thing with blowjobs is enthusiasm. That sense of excitement permeates and transfers to me at least. Deepthroating really doesn’t do a lot for me. But an active tongue around the head is so very nice…

  3. I look forward to READING some of your dick exploration. And I’ve only ever had sex with penises and I still haven’t mastered sex on top, so I wish you all the best. Somehow I’m sure you’ll do just fine. 🙂

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