[That’s My Kink] Wearing a Strapon


#WickedWednesday, Kink, That's My Kink / Thursday, February 21st, 2019

For this week’s Lingerie is for Everyone post I shared a selection of images one of which showed me in my strapon, not only do I love the images I also love the feeling I had when I was wearing my strapon to take them. When we think of someone wearing a strapon I suspect many minds go straight to the kink involved with that being penetration of another person, but wearing my strapon is my kink, without even throwing penetration into the mix.

Swagger

When I wear my strapon I feel different and swagger seems to be the perfect word to describe that feeling. Whether I’m going to us it for sexual activity or not just wearing it can have a positive effect on a scene or even a solo session.

There is a level of confidence that comes from wearing my strapon that just doesn’t happen when I wear other things. It’s almost like a feeling of owning the room … ‘I’m here, I’m queer and I’m wearing the purple cock of power, now get on your knees and suck it’ … those words would be a legitimate explanation of how my mind works when I strap it on, it feels so good.

Power and control are two of my big kinks (more on those at a later date) and my strapon feeds into both of them. That’s not to say that is the case for everyone, but certainly, that is part of the desire I have to wear my strapon.

Suck It

In the above paragraphs, I referenced having someone get on their knees to suck my strapon and this is absolutely one of my top strapon kinks. I am lucky to be able to explore this with Bakji and it is easily one of the hottest things we do.

There is something both extremely primal and beautifully intimate about the moments where my strapon is in his mouth. Sometimes he is in control of the action, his head free to actively suck, other times he is restrained and we are playing with a more ‘forced’ element of suck my dick. Either way, it’s awesome. I love telling him how turned on he gets while he sucking it and the fact he actively enjoys it and identifies that it turns him on outside of a scene makes it even more pleasurable.

Twitches & Tingles

When I wear my strapon it definitely becomes an extension of my body. Any activity that happens to my strapon seems to penetrate my own body. I’ll get feelings of arousal that are on par with having someone run their fingers across my labia or that tingle of desire I get if someone sexy nuzzles at my neck.

One of the things I want to do in 2019 is to get a strapon that is more unique to me. With colours and a harness that I identify with on a personal level, in the hopes that feeling more connected to the actual strapon might increase the intensity of the physical feelings I have when it is pleasured.

Masturbation

It took me a while to try this and I’m not really sure why, but one day I wondered what would happen if I wore my strapon during masturbation. What happened was super satisfying. Especially as I usually find masturbation pretty dull and uneventful.

The first time I tried this I just wore it, I’ll be honest and say that even in the privacy of my own home with no one watching I worried that ‘stimulating’ my strapon might be a step too far. Which is totally daft, but we all have these moments I think. Just wearing it during solo fun has an effect though, it just makes me feel sexy and more turned on and any attention I then pay myself feels far more intense than normal.

I then began to imagine giving myself a handjob, stroking my hand up and down my length in my mind and came so hard I sat bolt upright because the orgasm caught me off guard! I honestly felt like I’d unlocked a masturbation achievement at that moment. The next time I tried it with actual physical contact between hand and dildo and it actually wasn’t more intense, but it did feel naughtier and sexier.

Gender Feels

I know some people will wonder and others won’t, largely depending on your own personal experiences with gender but for me, this isn’t a kink that reflects my feelings about my own gender. I am a cisgendered woman and my gender identity really does feel very female. My strapon doesn’t make me feel more masculine, it just makes me feel freakin’ awesome.

What About Pegging and Penetration?

I do enjoy both these things and I hope to do more of them in the future, but they really aren’t the main reason why I love my strapon. I know lots of people who have never donned a strapon because their partner doesn’t have an interest in being penetrated with a dildo, and that is absolutely valid, but strapon fun can go beyond penetration and I often wonder how many people would enjoy this aspect of it if they gave it a go.

As always if you have got a post on this subject that you’d like to share with me please feel free to leave your link in the comments section, or if this post inspires you to write your own I’d love to give it a read once you’ve written it.

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11 Replies to “[That’s My Kink] Wearing a Strapon”

  1. I have only worn a strap-on once and it was only to take one or two photos, and I had a lot of giggles, but wearing it to use it in any way is not my thing. I do appreciate looking at women wearing it though, and would love to be on the receiving end of it…

    Rebel xox

    1. Ooh well I very much hope you get to do that soon! I also need more adventures in using it on ladies (and gents) then I can write about that too

    1. My masturbatory history is so dull that this happens to me all the time every time I try something new that works I get so excited

  2. I find your posts inspiring. You are so confident in your sexuality. I could take at least 42 lessons from you in that department. I have worn (and used) a strap on before, but it was such a colossal failure, I think I got rid of it. Maybe I’ll have to search my bag of toys and try it again.

    1. Thank you Brigit I think so many of us initially wear them to use (and for good reason) and using them isn’t always a big hit I think my pleasure in mine came from wearing it alone, just out of curiosity. I used to just wander round in it because it felt fun and it all spiralled from there really 🙂 xx

  3. I have only worn a strap on once and it wasn’t a success. It was really great to read about your experience and about how it makes you feel. Really interesting 🙂

  4. Love to read this. One of my partners is interested in sometime exploring pegging and thinking of wearing a strap on for this really makes me hot.

    Also- the first time I ever heard of a packing dildo strapon (listening to some sexy podcast) I remember I was walking down the street and could feel myself getting hot and wet. The idea of just wearing a cock and going about my day felt so… sinful and sexy and powerful. I’ve never pursued it but I still love the idea.

    1. Omg! Yes! Wearing a Packer is absolutely on my to do list. I’m not sure what results it will yield, but when I get round to it I will definitely blog about it. I hope your sexy strapon fun comes to you soon as well 🙂 x

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