Foot Fetishism has to be one of the most popular and widespread kinks both within the kink community and beyond. If you ask someone what kind of Fetishes people can have I am willing to bet the awareness of feet as a Fetish is there for a lot of people, whether they are into it or not. I haven’t got a foot Fetish as such, but feet certainly provide a kinky interest for me.
‘Foot fetishism, foot partialism, foot worshipping or podophilia, is a pronounced sexual interest in feet. It is the most common form of sexual fetishism for otherwise non-sexual objects or body parts and is more prevalent in men than women’FromWikipedia
When I first joined the kink scene I would have put money of the fact I would never be into feet as a kink. I didn’t like having my feet touched and certainly had no desire to touch anyone else’s. One of the main reasons for this is that prior to having an operation on it in 2004 I had a lot of pain in my left foot, so the idea of someone touching it was unbearable. As the issue at hand was bone-related, and the operation was somewhat of a partial fix, cold weather can still aggravate my foot and so sometimes it is still a no go zone. I can’t remember when my feet became a potential part of play but it was definitely once I had started exploring FemDom with Bakji.
I wrote about feet in April 2018, when I wrote ‘Do Feet Make You Frisky’ for Kink of the week. Since then we have enjoyed lots more scenes that involved my feet one of which involved me standing on the bed and putting pressure on the side of Bakji’s neck with one of my feet. Which I did with a lot of care and attention. It was one of the sexiest moments I can remember.
When you’re covering subjects you’ve already written about it can be tricky to find a new angle to discuss them from, I realised though as I thought about feet more that there are three main ways in which I enjoy incorporating my feet into our play.
Having someone quite literally kneel at your feet and kiss them is more exhilarating than I ever could have imagined. Whether my feet are bare or in super sexy heels the effect is the same. When Bakji is tied up and I have to take my feet to him that doesn’t remove any of the joy either. When I put my feet near his mouth and his instinct is to kiss them it is one of those reactions that I mentioned in ‘That’s My Kink – His Submission’ that makes my FemDom heart soar. Only once have we incorporated massage into this, but I think this is something I need to do more of.
Footjobs aren’t the easiest of sexual acts to perform, but oh my goodness do I enjoy trying to perfect them. I haven’t managed to keep a footjob up until Bakji comes but it is definitely on the todo list. There is something extremely erotic about my lubed up feet slipping and sliding up and down his penis that puts a massive smile on my face.
Often what I do with my feet is less about Bakji’s pleasure (though in reality it does please him) and more about the thrill I get from being able to use my feet to show I have the power, the control and if I want something to happen it will. This does, of course, all happen within the agreed parameters of our dynamic and Bakji is as willing to be subjected to those whims of mine as I am to give into them. Actions that lend themselves well to asserting my Dominance over him in this way are shoving my feet in his face, standing on/placing my feet on his chest, as mentioned above using my feet for breathplay and we haven’t tried it yet, but it is on the to-do list, trampling.
There is something about feet that once you’ve unlocked their potential they ooze intimacy and the connecting you can create by using them during your play is quite fascinating. I know it isn’t for everyone, but if you’re even a tiny bit curious about including feet in your dynamic then I would definitely recommend giving it a go.