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1. You can only keep 3 things: (pick and explain your choices)
Wine or Beer
Books, Chocolate and Netflix. Books because I think the world would be a much duller place if I didn’t have the wonderful writing of other to explore. Chocolate because I have a crazy sweet tooth and the thought of never eating chocolate again makes me feel quite sad! I try to eat it moderately but when I do eat it I LOVE it. Netflix because it’s the only access I have to T.V shows (I don’t own a Television), and sometimes it really is just nice to relax with a bar of chocolate and a few episodes of something I enjoy. Gives my brain a bit of a break from the thinking it seems to do constantly.
2. If your job gave you a surprise 3-day paid break, what would you do with those three days?
Well I currently have no official job, as in no-one employs me. As it happens though today is the first day of me kick starting my own business from home. By business I mean sexy phone calls and cam work, but fuck my life it’s harder than it looks, so very soon I may need a three day break. If somebody decided to pay me for that three day break, (which FYI you are most welcome to do) I think I’d like to go to Amsterdam for a few days. Went a long time ago with my Dad when I was 14, but would love to go as an adult and explore some more.
On my first visit I ate McDonalds every day, visited the zoo and Efteling, stumbled into the red light district by mistake, which obviously mortified my Dad, even though I’m certain my perversions are genetic, but rightly so he felt 14 wasn’t the age to be exploring those interests! I drank far too much Cherry Fernandes (pictured left) and got cough sweets out of a vending machine thinking they were regular sweets, much to hilarity of the receptionist when she discovered I didn’t have a cough!
It was a wonderful trip but I’d love to go again with Bakji and have a more adult holiday there. I am hoping that is our next travel adventure together, so if you have any recommendations for us, from good times to visit, sexy and/or kinky things to do, must see tourist attractions etc, then please do leave a comment below.
3. Have you ever had a threesome? What was the configuration?
I have had a few threesomes, none of them looked how you’d imagine a threesome to look though if you were going by porn standards. They have all been two ladies and a fella, which is the most typical thing about them. None of them involved penetrative sex for me, and only one of them involved penetrative sex for another person. To be honest though I didn’t really feel like I’d had one until my most recent experience. I think because it was the one I was most engaged in and most passionate about.
Which for people outside of a sex positive environment might mean they weren’t ‘proper’ threesomes, for me though, engaging in any sexual or kink activity with two other people is in fact a threesome. That said though, for me, having a threesome isn’t the highlight of sexual encounters that it is portrayed to be by porn and also many mainstream channels.
4. In a threesome, do you like to be the star attraction or a bit player/personal assistant?
In the threesomes I’ve been involved in it never worked like that at all. What tended to occur was a ‘star player’ rotation. So everyone got a turn as being the focus of the other too. I admit this varies a little when kink comes into play, because as a Top I will often get my pleasure from doing, and may not necessarily be worried about getting a turn at having things done to me. However that doesn’t make me feel like a ‘bit player’. So long as the dynamics between all involved are good and everyone is getting pleasure from what they are engaged in, that is all that matters to me.
5. Would you have another threesome?
Absolutely. In fact I think we might have a friend or two that we are hoping that this will occur with in the not too distant future. I’d also say that for me personally while my previous threesome activity was MFF, I’d Also be open to MMF, FFF and non-binary configurations of threesomes. I know some of my friends read my blog so feel like this is a good opportunity to make sure they are all included in the potential fun!
Bonus: Rate your last threesome on a scale of 1-5, 5 being fantastic.
OMG! Definitely 5! with the potential to exceed top ratings when we get to do it again with the same lady. It was sexy as hell and I’ve never written about it on the blog because amazingly there are some experiences I keep private, although granted that isn’t many.
I loved teasing Bakji by interacting with another lady, and it was joyful to see them enjoying each other, as I indulged in something that delighted me too. Again there was no P.I.V sex, although even now I’m oddly gutted that I didn’t get to watch them do that. Fear not though it is on the to do list for future sexy times. There was however oral sex, fingering, kissing, spanking, teasing, biting and probably some additional goodies I may have forgotten about in my excitement to relive those moments in my mind.
I am a big believer in penetration with genitals not having to be the main event of sexual fun! Don’t get me wrong, it can be, and if it is the pinnacle of sexy fun for you, I am 100% in support of you enjoying it as much as you can. I think for many of us though P.I.V or P.I.A sex isn’t always necessary for an amazing session, whether that’s with one partner, two partners or more partners.
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